[OSList] How do you "hold space?"

Thu Feb 13 16:38:28 PST 2020

A participant once asked me what I was doing before/as I stepped into the
opening circle, Jake. I asked what if looked like. She said, like you were
being space. Best ppt compliment I ever had. Also the week after two weeks
in a Tibetan monastery, so maybe I was too if my game.

If you want, you can practice with another being what happen when you
describe the falling away. Sit facing each other, or back to back is good
too. Let your awareness include everything that tells you that you are, all
and any sensation. Then let awareness notice that the being infrint if you
is, too.  Let the other be as real to you as you are to yourself.
Move/pulse attention back and forth until you are aware of both being at
once. Won’t matter if they do this or not, as long as they’re not
distracting you. Notice what happens. Notice the quality of space. Shared.
Notice what it feels like and then google the four immeasurables. And then
notice that we can do this anytime with groups, of just in the train home
at night. Open space is everywhere at once. <grin>

On Thu, Feb 13, 2020 at 16:54 Jake Yeager via OSList <
oslist at lists.openspacetech.org> wrote:

> This was such a rich thread. Thank you all for sharing.
>
> My "understanding" of OST and the facilitator's role deepens the more I
> engage in spiritual practices.
>
> At some point I imagine the notion of "me" as an "OST facilitator" will
> also fall away. Then, I am fully present--hell, I AM the present. :) Or
> just I AM. And the notion of the "group" falls away too.
>
> Much love all
>
> Jake
> ________________
>
> When the mind is quiet, the sun of your heart will shine once again, and
> you will be free of problems.
>  - Robert Adams <http://www.robert-adams.info/>
>
>
> On Mon, Feb 10, 2020 at 1:03 PM Thomas Perret via OSList <
> oslist at lists.openspacetech.org> wrote:
>
>> Birgitt,
>>
>> Awesome, thank you!
>>
>> Kindly,
>> Thomas
>>
>>
>> On 10 Feb 2020, at 17.40, Birgitt Williams via OSList <
>> oslist at lists.openspacetech.org> wrote:
>>
>> Hi Thomas,
>> My perspective about OST started because I was in a senior staff
>> position, accountable for the performance of my organization, when I
>> introduced OST into the organization and paid a lot of attention to what
>> worked and what didn't over time. My perspective is added to by my choice
>> to work predominantly in helping organizations transform. My use of OST is
>> within intact organizations and multiple OST meetings are always part of
>> our transformation process. The best I can offer on the list is my
>> perspective from my own experience.
>>
>> Most important is that every person who facilitates OST has an
>> understanding of the form of OST, and their own chosen concept of what the
>> essence is. What is this thing referred to as 'space', what is meant by
>> 'open' and then 'open space'. From a personal understanding comes a
>> personal perspective of what it is to open space and hold space, if those
>> words suit the person. It is a personal journey. I have come to understand
>> that it is more about the persona/leadership development of the facilitator
>> over time than about anything else. It is a way to learn to be the change
>> you want to see in the world.
>>
>> The decisions about what to do and not do come from this understanding
>> and the associated perspective that develops. I have a perspective that is
>> uniquely mine, although I have set teachings from my perspective out into
>> the word in our Working with Open Space Technology module of the Genuine
>> Contact program. In turn, every GC trainer shares via their own unique
>> perspective.
>>
>> Thank you for noticing,
>> in genuine contact,
>> Birgitt
>>
>>
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>> On Mon, Feb 10, 2020 at 5:22 AM Thomas Perret <thomas at dooning.fi> wrote:
>>
>>> Hi Birgitt and Michael,
>>>
>>> Reading your responses to the question about holding space, I see a
>>> possible difference in approach to space invaders and would like to hear
>>> more.
>>>
>>> You, Birgitt, stressed that dealing with space invaders is the job of
>>> the facilitator and you added - not the participants’. Which makes me think
>>> you consider this important. Whereas you, Michael, wrote that you might
>>> wait a moment and then sometimes the participants themselves deal with it.
>>>
>>> Will you tell me from your viewpoints what you consider beneficial with
>>> your approach?
>>>
>>> Kind regards,
>>> Thomas
>>>
>>>
>>> ___
>>>
>>> All is possible together
>>>
>>> On 10 Feb 2020, at 2.17, Birgitt Williams via OSList <
>>> oslist at lists.openspacetech.org> wrote:
>>>
>>> The sponsor opens the space in their organization.
>>> The facilitator has the privilege of opening the space for people to get
>>> in touch with what they are passionate about. The facilitator is very
>>> controlling when doing so, not allowing any space invaders to sabotage the
>>> creation of the container.
>>> The facilitator does their work of making sure that space invaders don't
>>> derail the experience. This is not the job of the participants. It is the
>>> job of the facilitator.
>>> The facilitator does whatever they think is the holding of space, each
>>> to their own interpretation of what this is, and above all avoids
>>> becoming a space invader him/her self.
>>>
>>> in genuine contact,
>>> heart to heart space,
>>> Birgitt
>>>
>>> *Birgitt Williams*
>>> *Supporting You in Developing Your Leadership*
>>> Author,The Genuine Contact Way: Nourishing a Culture of Leadership
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>>> Senior Consultant, President Dalar International Consultancy, Inc
>>> <http://www.dalarinternational.com/>
>>> Founder Genuine Contact Program
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>>> Contact Co-owners Group, I <https://genuinecontact.net/about/co-owners/>
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>>> On Sun, Feb 9, 2020 at 6:40 PM Michael M Pannwitz via OSList <
>>> oslist at lists.openspacetech.org> wrote:
>>>
>>>> Dear Jake and you others, (after finishing this piece I suggest you
>>>> first get yourself a cup of coffee or other beverage you cherish, find
>>>> a
>>>> couch and take a little time to read this lengthy piece)
>>>>
>>>> I as facilitator will increasingly get into the mode of "total presence
>>>> and absolute invisibility" by reflection. As I inch up, or millimeter
>>>> up, in this regard the easier does it get to hold "time and space".
>>>>
>>>> Now, this is both more than rocket science as well as simple. However,
>>>> and this is the tough part, not easy.
>>>> After pushing myself in the early years of my practice I eventually
>>>> realized that "total presence and absolute invisibility" requires
>>>> life-long attention and learning. As does holding time and space. Both
>>>> are part of this. And if you start with OST late in life, as I did at
>>>> the age of 56 and three decades of OD and related stuff behind me, its
>>>> mainly a lot of un-learning.
>>>>
>>>> Okay, here are some of the things I reflect on... best with others
>>>> right
>>>> during an ost event (I actually plan timeslots for this in the agenda
>>>> the team has for itself):
>>>>
>>>> --- Being unattached to outcome and not getting involved in content is
>>>> a
>>>> prerequisite for having the high energy required for attaining the mode
>>>> of "present and invisible." (I think it was HO who tells the story of
>>>> being asked by someone during an OST event about apparently doing
>>>> nothing... and him responding with "Doing nothing is what I get paid
>>>> for.").
>>>> --- One thing I can arrange for and reflect on before getting into a
>>>> facilitator situtation, is not to facilitate an ost event in a
>>>> situation
>>>> that I have stakes in (like in my own organisation).
>>>> One practice tested way is to help oneself and other facilitators in
>>>> this regard is to arrange for a "rain check" system: I work as
>>>> facilitator without pay in your organisation and you in turn work as
>>>> facilitator without pay in mine. That allows us in each case to be
>>>> fully
>>>> participant in a setting we have stakes in. And for lots of learning.
>>>> Which happens easily in sustainably reflecting my practice.
>>>> --- One more thing I can arrange for once it is clear that I am
>>>> facilitator in a specific event is to have an assistant who supports me
>>>> in doing nothing and reminds me to stay out of the way. (This reminds
>>>> me
>>>> of a story about one of the Ceasars in Rome who hired someone to
>>>> quietly
>>>> tell him that he is not God when everyone adored, admired, fell on his
>>>> knews before him.) The assistant, in turn, has a team to take care of
>>>> all the nitty-gritty stuff around setting up the event and caring for
>>>> the event without being space invadors.
>>>>
>>>> --- What is central to my role as facilitator in regard to
>>>> "holding/expanding time and space for the unfolding of the force of
>>>> selforganisation"?
>>>> OST has this as its central characteristic. I know of no
>>>> approach/method/process/etc. that has "holding/expanding time and space
>>>> for the unfolding of the force of selforganisation" as its central
>>>> characteristic. It is unique to OST. This I think is also one of the
>>>> reasons why it always works, appears familiar to everyone once they get
>>>> into it, is effective in all cultures, etc.
>>>> As is often told, there is really only one effective way to reduce the
>>>> unhampered unfolding of the  force of selforganisation: Control.  Mind
>>>> you, the force of selforganisation does not appear completely (this, I
>>>> think would stop everything, the universe would disapper). It can get
>>>> very tiny, but its there... an organisation or a group or a
>>>> neighborhood
>>>> would not be unless the force is still active. The way, it often shows
>>>> itself, is in the "informal" part of a system that is used by everyone
>>>> to make things work. It can also rest in the "informal" leaders in a
>>>> neighborhood that Saul Alinski, among other things, looked for in
>>>> working with communities.
>>>> --- So, all situations, tempting as they may be, in which I exert
>>>> control are counterproductive for the central characteristic of OST.
>>>> "Control" can be around little things that I intuitively do in
>>>> situations where I feel I need to step in: Walk up to the Bulletin
>>>> Board
>>>> to pick up an issue-poster that got unstuck and put it back in it
>>>> place.
>>>> A bit more control might be my suggestion that no issue needs to be put
>>>> up more than once. And even more control is active when I proclaim that
>>>> a certain issue has nothing to do with the overall Theme of the event.
>>>> --- Being fully present for me is also a prerequisite for dealing with
>>>> space invadors. There are no recipies for this. One thing that helps me
>>>> is to start counting before I address the space invasion. Most often a
>>>> fellow participant will speak to this before I reach 6. For me, this
>>>> has
>>>> nothing to do with "trusting" the group. I prefer to say that I know
>>>> groups will handle stuff like this all by themselves. If they are let.
>>>> Sometimes in the early part of the ost event a participant will walk up
>>>> to me and request that I come to a break-out session that has problems
>>>> with the issue or the process. The first time I was approached, I
>>>> actually went with the participant. It was interesting to see that the
>>>> group had already found its way in the time that their scout went to
>>>> find me and bring me to his session.
>>>> Eventually I experienced that the folks at an ost event can and will
>>>> not
>>>> only deal with every issue they have but also selforganise everything
>>>> they need. And, if pointed out to them that they selforganize
>>>> structure,
>>>> leading, managing, etc. they find this not especially interesting. I
>>>> get
>>>> this as a pointer that they are doing what is inherently natural to
>>>> them.
>>>>
>>>> And here is also a short take on what I have found very useful around
>>>> the transition from the divergent to the convergent phase of an os
>>>> event.
>>>> First, I am pretty sure that we can skip convergence in the traditional
>>>> sense: Having some kind of tool (there are myriad) of weighing or
>>>> voting
>>>> on issues that came up in the divergent phase.
>>>> Years ago, when I still used the 55 dot method I noticed that the items
>>>> that got the most dots rarely entered the project phase. It dawned on
>>>> me, that prioritization is a statistical method that probably does
>>>> result in finding out what might be most important to the group but not
>>>> what has, yes you already feel it, someone or several people with
>>>> passion and responsibility grabbing it.
>>>> So, me and others came up with what we already had and simply convened
>>>> a
>>>> second os in the last half day after the Reading Gallery the evening
>>>> before. Now, this is usually called Action Space. In this space the
>>>> focus is not on issues but on projects. Folks are invited to post
>>>> projects and gather around projects to develope next steps for tackling
>>>> them. It looks and feels and is another os event with the participants
>>>> that already experienced os in the diverging phase and get into this
>>>> second one in 2 minutes flat already familiar with the process.
>>>> The amazing thing was, that aside from what one would expect to see as
>>>> projects, other projects were posted that had not been visible. I feel
>>>> this is the result of participants having reached a much wider picture
>>>> of the whole situation after being in the divergent phase and studying
>>>> all the report sheets including the augmentation of them and also being
>>>> in a better position on what ressources they now see in the group that
>>>> they have worked with in the first space.
>>>>
>>>> Considering that basically OST is an action orienting approach and that
>>>> action only happens if there is passion joined by responsibility for
>>>> something that is to be done the Action Space is a good way to have
>>>> that
>>>> happen for which the entire gathering was that up for: Dealing with a
>>>> wicked issue that nobody had an answer to at the beginning of the open
>>>> space.
>>>>
>>>> It is also a simple way of doing it. I mention this because I still
>>>> feel
>>>> that anyone with a clear head and a good heart can facilitated an ost
>>>> event, especially if it is a straigtforward approach.
>>>>
>>>> Greetings from Berlin where I look forward to seeing you at the WOSonOS
>>>> this fall
>>>> > https://wosonos2020.berlin/
>>>>
>>>>
>>>> mmp
>>>>
>>>> Have a great day,
>>>> mmp
>>>>
>>>>
>>>>
>>>> Am 08.02.2020 um 19:44 schrieb Jake Yeager via OSList:
>>>> > Many questions these days. Thank you for entertaining them. :)
>>>> >
>>>> > This past week, I facilitated an eight-hour Open Space split across
>>>> two
>>>> > half-days. The attendees were an Organizational Development team, of
>>>> > which I am a member. My AVP sponsored the event, because we had
>>>> recently
>>>> > merged with another group, and there was lack of clarity. So, our
>>>> theme
>>>> > was: "Who are we, and how do we collaborate to drive success?" Also,
>>>> my
>>>> > AVP--who is a leader in Learning & Development--wanted to experience
>>>> > Open Space in order to understand it better as it is new to my firm.
>>>> >
>>>> > Since I am a fledgling facilitator, I chose not to participate in the
>>>> > breakout sessions, even though I am part of the group. I wanted to
>>>> make
>>>> > sure that I provided the best experience for everyone, and
>>>> participating
>>>> > would have dampened my focus. I shared this with my manager, after
>>>> she
>>>> > inquired after the first day why I had not participated.
>>>> >
>>>> > Long story short, after the event, my manager had major concerns how
>>>> I
>>>> > facilitated the event. I had gone for long walks while the group was
>>>> > working, and she felt that was very risky. I told her that the
>>>> > facilitator's role is to remain "invisible" to allow the group to
>>>> build
>>>> > its capacity for self-management. She said that our firm's culture is
>>>> > very hierarchical and that "baby steps" are needed. She suggested
>>>> even
>>>> > intervening in a group if it gets "stuck." I believe I mentioned that
>>>> > intervening is not part of Open Space facilitation.
>>>> >
>>>> > So my question is: how do you "hold space?" I found Chris's
>>>> description
>>>> > on his website: "an Open Space Technology facilitator is neither seen
>>>> > nor heard, but his or her presence is 'felt.'" I guess by going for
>>>> long
>>>> > walks and not being in the room, my presence was not "felt." One of
>>>> my
>>>> > colleagues provided feedback that by not being there, it didn't seem
>>>> > like I cared. This is definitely not the case. I went on long walks
>>>> as
>>>> > an act of love, not negligence.
>>>> >
>>>> > Anyway, would love your thoughts.
>>>> >
>>>> > Thanks,
>>>> > Jake
>>>> > ________________
>>>> >
>>>> > When the mind is quiet, the sun of your heart will shine once again,
>>>> and
>>>> > you will be free of problems.
>>>> >   - Robert Adams <http://www.robert-adams.info/>
>>>> >
>>>>
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