re honouring each other

[Tree Fitzpatrick]

For what it is worth, I experience Kaliya's comments as powerful, even
courageous efforts to open space.

For what it is worth, I experience Michael's comments as name-calling,
denigrating, invalidating, dishonoring. I find myself wishing he would make
less attack statements and more 'I' statements, telling us what he thinks
and feels without attacking others shared thoughts and feelings.

On Tue, Nov 17, 2009 at 9:16 AM, Karen Sella <karen at luminacoaching.com>wrote:

> For what it's worth, I experienced all the comments from Michael and others
> as adding useful perspectives to the conversation--not invalidating or
> dishonoring... just sharing yet another perspective.
>
> Warmly,
> Karen
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> Karen Sella
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> lumina fr. L. light, air, opening...
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> Hi Everyone,
> I have been following this community for a while and will soon start
> sharing info. Many thanks for all the enlivening info. I am grateful.
> I feel the need to speak in response to Michael's comments re Kaliya's
> thoughts.
> OST is about staying open and positive and welcoming of all perspectives
> and ideas, as I experience it. Critiquing and judging and saying "no" to
> ideas stops the new, constantly self-emerging outflowing of ideas that is
> creating a continual shared meaning among us all that excites me to no
> end.
>
> All of Kaliya's ideas are valid.
>
> Michael, may I suggest you own your own ideas more powerfully by using
> phrases like "in my opinion" or using the pronoun "I" rather than "you"
> when you share your own ideas.
>
> ...and on with the OST dance,
>
> Sincerely,
> Kathie Wallace
> Vancouver, BC, Canada
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. . . the great and incalculable grace of love, which says, with Augustine,
"I want you to be," without being able to give any particular reason for
such supreme and unsurpassable affirmation.  -- Hannah Arendt

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