whatever one says, people do whatever they want to do anyway

[Funda Oral]

Thank you Joelle,

We had prepared and posted the schedule.

My role was a bit confusing as i was in the group of sponsors, i was participant and also facilitator of the meeting. But it had
to be like that. It took me 9 months to convince my colleagues to try OST. On Sunday, i didn't want to bother anybody   
with rules and regulations.

"But I have also observed that Open Space conversations can be very intense, and sometimes, by the end of the day, some people are tired, or maybe just need time to reflect on all they have heard.  And as much as I enjoy a closing circle, there have been times that it just did not feel appropriate when we got to that point. "When it's over, it's over." This doesn't mean that you have done anything wrong."

I guess that's what happened at the end of our OST meeting ::))  

I wanted people to have a good time spending that sunny sunday discussing the issues that mattered to them.
Actually, now,  we are getting very positive feedbacks from participants.

Birgitt, thank you for your questions, i guess i answered some of them now.

Jack, i agree with everything you say, as always::))

Lots of love from cold and rainy Istanbul,
Funda 
    
  ----- Original Message ----- 
  From: Joelle Lyons Everett 
  To: OSLIST at LISTSERV.BOISESTATE.EDU 
  Sent: Tuesday, March 07, 2006 8:50 AM
  Subject: Re: whatever one says, people do whatever they want to do anyway


  Filiz and Funda--

  I agree with others that it sounds as if your Open Space was quite productive, even if it did not happen exactly as you imagined it.

  As I read your account, I thought that probably for most people, this was their first Open Space meeting.  And I remembered something that happened on Saturday.  Paul and I went to a funeral for the father of our son's wife.  It was held at a small Catholic church in a small town.  Because the father had been a policeman for many years, and was the chief of police, there were a number of city officials and police officers present who were not church members, and in the extended family there were many small children.

  Before the service started, someone stood up and said that she was happy to welcome guests to the service, and because many were strangers, she would describe the service briefly, so we would understand what was happening.  She gave a simple explanation of each step of the liturgy, pointing out where everyone would join in, and what special things family members would be doing.  I noticed that it made it much easier for me and my young granddaughter to follow the service and join in the hymns and prayers.

  When I facilitate OS, I usually, like Birgitt, post a schedule that lists the activities and times.  I also quickly outline the activities of the day, and if the sponsor has asked for action planning, I mention the time for that during my introduction.  Sometimes a simple outline of the schedule is included in the invitation, so people know what to expect.

  But I have also observed that Open Space conversations can be very intense, and sometimes, by the end of the day, some people are tired, or maybe just need time to reflect on all they have heard.  And as much as I enjoy a closing circle, there have been times that it just did not feel appropriate when we got to that point. "When it's over, it's over." This doesn't mean that you have done anything wrong.

  I'm pleased for both of you that you are realizing your dream of opening space in Turkey!

  Joelle



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