Open Space - a minimum?

Harrison Owen hhowen at comcast.net
Sun Aug 14 05:35:00 PDT 2005


Funda -- seems to me it always has to be a personal decision and judgment as to how one may best contribute. It is quite true that my resourses vastly exceed those of most people in the world. I therefore have a special responsibility to use those resourses in the most judicious fashion to do the best I can for the people who need it most. But then the question arisies where and how do I make the maximum impact? I don't think there is any easy or "right" answer to this -- but over the years I have come to the conclusion that everytime I can help folks to do for themselves what might more quickly be done by somebody else there is a double bonus. The situation gets taken care of and the people are more effectively equiped to handle a similar situation the next time around. I guess I have also seen too many disasterous attempts to fix the world for people according to the "fixers" vision of what needs to get done and how to do it. I have never found it possible to isolate myself from the pain and misfortune of the people I have lived and worked with, and hopefully I will never find armor thick enough to do that. I always wish I could do more. But at the end of the day I have found that my most effective contribution has been to create and hold the space/time so that the people can find their own way. For an impatient, pragmatic, practical American doing that can be a terrible burden. It is the "not doing" that really twists my mind. And you will have to find your own way.

Harrison

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  ----- Original Message ----- 
  From: Funda Oral 
  To: OSLIST at LISTSERV.BOISESTATE.EDU 
  Sent: Sunday, August 14, 2005 5:42 AM
  Subject: Re: Open Space - a minimum?


  Michael writes :
  "There, I saw grand opportunities for open space and talked about it
  to people."

  That's what i do here, although it is not heard so quickly. But i can not 
  get detached
  so quickly from people's struggle.

  I agree that self organizing, local resources, their lives and livelyhood
  (as Harrison mentions)...their ability to create solutions are 
  important...very important.

  I still think that we ( the ones having more to eat, a shelter, health, 
  space; who were lucky to get some education, travel, learn
  appreciate, enyoy life,  so on)  can not say "them, their problems, their 
  struggle, their solutions".

  I feel our responsibility is more then that.

  Funda

  ----- Original Message ----- 
  From: "Pannwitz, Michael M" <mmpanne at boscop.de>
  To: <OSLIST at LISTSERV.BOISESTATE.EDU>
  Sent: Sunday, August 14, 2005 11:00 AM
  Subject: Open Space - a minimum?


  > Dear Funda,
  > I live in a rich city: Berlin.
  > My colleagues and I have facilitated about 300 os-events since 1996
  > in this city alone.
  > The dark sides of this city have in that same period grown:
  > unemployment, poverty, homelessness, dismanteling of social services,
  > cuts in primary education and health care, disentchantment with the
  > political process....along with the widening gap between poor -
  > middle income and rich people.
  > So, whats all this effort led to?
  > Heaven knows
  > and
  > almost every day I get little signs
  > someone approaching me in a bus, on the street, an email, a telephone
  > call,
  > characterized by a smile.
  > As far as I am concerned, thats pretty much all I need to keep going.
  > A few days ago I returned from Karachi, Pakistan,
  > somewhere between 14 and 19 million people,
  > where Yaari and I lead a training for 26 colleagues from Afghanistan,
  > Nepal, Pakistan and Sri Lanka.
  > There, I saw grand opportunities for open space and talked about it
  > to people.
  > That environment with its many challenges invigorated me,
  > especially those thousands of people I saw while going to the
  > railroad station, the harbor, the markets, along teeming streets...
  > all of them, including the tenacious begging children, rising to the
  > really difficult situation making a go of things,
  > seemingly at a very high level of "muddling through".
  > What splendid resources!
  > And: I dont need to understand their struggle to facilitate an open
  > space technology event.
  > And: I am certainly not going to help them to get what they need not
  > really knowing or being able to understand their need.
  > Neither in Berlin or in Karachi.
  > What I can supply, is assistance in getting an os-event set up and to
  > facilitate it (or, in the case of Karachi, train people to do that)
  > which will definitely provide the best known framework for
  > selforganization including the optimal use of whatever resources are
  > available.
  >
  > While I was in Karachi, I read the "Dawn" every morning (in fact,
  > there is hardly a dawn or dusk in Karachi, it seems to go from light
  > to dark to light within minutes)
  > and a story about "Karachi 2020" caught my eye.
  > It described in great detail all the stuff a huge staff of
  > consultants (foreign) was hired for to "understand" the problem,
  > about 20 fields of investigation, half a newspaper page full (census,
  > roads, income distribution, migration patterns.....)
  > with side remarks about the government scolding the local planners
  > for not being competent to develope proper plans.
  > I read it all and at the very end I found a note that after the plans
  > would all be drawn up,
  > citizens would be invited to explain the plans to them,
  > with the possibility to then fine tune them.
  >
  > Well, what a neglect of local resources!
  > What an upside down procedure, producing another set of eventually
  > useless data under the ill fatet belief that this kind of planning
  > will actually improve Karachi.
  > Lots of room for open space, though.
  > Maybe some of my colleagues will get busy on those and other areas
  > there.
  >
  > Greetings from Berlin
  > mmp
  >
  >
  >
  > On Sat, 13 Aug 2005 13:40:56 +0300, Funda Oral wrote:
  >
  >>Dear John and everybody,
  >>
  >>I live in a city where one can see extreme cases ( richness and poorness,
  >>joy and powerty so on...)
  >>in a short distance from each other.
  >>
  >>One sees so big problems, and so strong struggle for life
  >>that sometime the word "open space" looks funny, silly and luxury.
  >>
  >>I still believe that "opening space", inviting people to
  >>exist, to talk, to express their needs and struggle is
  >>"something", a very small step maybe, but still helpful.
  >>
  >>But it's not enough, the ultimate aim is to understand their straggle
  >>and help them to get what they need...we don't need to be poor with the
  >>poor;
  >>sick with the sick ( as Judi beautifully mentions)...the least we can do
  >>is to open space to respect them.... but this is only the minimum.
  >>
  >>And i am very worried and sad to see that in many cases all i could
  >>do would be to open space. I am not strong or rich enough to end
  >>struggle.
  >>
  >>I guess we need more trembling hearts, more resources and better
  >>cooperation for that.
  >>
  >>Funda
  >>
  >>
  >>----- Original Message ----- 
  >>From: "john engle" <englejohn at hotmail.com>
  >>To: <OSLIST at LISTSERV.BOISESTATE.EDU>
  >>Sent: Thursday, August 11, 2005 10:17 PM
  >>Subject: powerful poem! help me understand it.
  >>
  >>
  >>> hi brendan, kairi and others.
  >>>
  >>> i've never opened space in a prison but i have participated in a
  >>> touchstones discussion (http://touchstones.org) with about 25 men 
  >>> serving
  >>> life sentences. the discussion centered around "power" and not
  >>> surprisingly, i learned a great deal.
  >>>
  >>> great that you are doing this! i look forward to following developments 
  >>> as
  >>> you work toward opening space in prisons.
  >>>
  >>> on another subject, kairi, thank you for sharing that poem in your
  >>> message. i love it! and, i loved being at OSonOS! Judi, you and your 
  >>> team
  >>> did a great job at receiving us and making us feel at home.
  >>>
  >>> while i love the spirit of the poem, i just don't know what to do with
  >>> "banish the word struggle from your vocabulary." how do others see this?
  >>>
  >>> removing the word struggle from MY vocabulary seems like it could have
  >>> some positive outcomes. at the same time, it's hard for me to think of a
  >>> better word that describes daily life for so many people. and, not
  >>> acknowledging this seems like i might be missing something as i work 
  >>> with
  >>> folks in circumstances so much different from my own.
  >>>
  >>> i'm in haiti as i write and catching up with friends and colleagues. 
  >>> there
  >>> are at least hundreds of thousands of people here--some estimate in the
  >>> millions--that don't consume a meal each day. and when they do, they 
  >>> don't
  >>> know when they'll eat next. i can't begin to imagine what living with so
  >>> much uncertainty and discomfort must be like. and i've also learned that
  >>> far too often we who live in financially prosperous countries romance
  >>> poverty, saying that poor people are happier.
  >>>
  >>> it serves us (people who live in financially prosperous countries) well 
  >>> to
  >>> see things this way and it pains me when i have US American visitors 
  >>> with
  >>> me in Haiti and conclude after a week here that the people are "so 
  >>> happy."
  >>> in many cultures, those in the southern countries included, it is
  >>> appropriate to put one's best face forward especially when meeting
  >>> visitors. those same Haitians who looked so happy to the visitor might 
  >>> be
  >>> totally stressed out because they're worrying about how they're going to
  >>> pay school fees for their kids and get a meal together, etc. when they
  >>> speak in their own language to me, "struggle" projects from their facial
  >>> expressions, body movement and words.
  >>>
  >>> i would not feel comfortable asking folks who live such realities to
  >>> remove "struggle" from their vocabulary.
  >>>
  >>> thanks for your patience as i vent and live emotions connected to being
  >>> with friends in extremely difficult situations.
  >>>
  >>> john
  >>>
  >>>
  >>> http://JohnEngle.net
  >>> email: john at johnengle.net
  >>> P.O. Box 337
  >>> Hershey, Pennsylvania 17033
  >>> tel. 202-236-6532
  >>>
  >>>
  >>>
  >>>
  >>>>From: Brendan McKeague <mckeague at iprimus.com.au>
  >>>>Reply-To: OSLIST <OSLIST at LISTSERV.BOISESTATE.EDU>
  >>>>To: OSLIST at LISTSERV.BOISESTATE.EDU
  >>>>Subject: Re: There is a river flowing now very fast
  >>>>Date: Thu, 11 Aug 2005 08:26:54 +0800
  >>>>
  >>>>
  >>>>"Banish the word 'struggle' from your attitude and your vocabulary.
  >>>>All that we do now must be done in a sacred manner and in celebration.
  >>>>aahhh....thank you so much Kairi
  >>>>
  >>>>What a moment to receive this gift - the start of a brand new
  >>>>day...beautiful and inspiring...today I will let go a wee bit more...
  >>>>I am about to depart for  a day's 'space-making' in a maximum security
  >>>>prison with long-term offenders..
  >>>>I will be present and holding space with individual men - my dream is 
  >>>>that
  >>>>one day there may be more collective open space within such 
  >>>>confinement...
  >>>>.
  >>>>Anyone ever opened space in a prison?
  >>>>
  >>>>peace to all
  >>>>Brendan
  >>>>
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