AW: Central Asia

[Judi Richardson]

Hi all,

A very rich exchange, indeed.  Intriguing to hear a plethora of experience!

Julie -- you wrote...
I spend some of my time mediating with people who are in conflict.  It seems
to me that people in conflict are usually not in touch with truth.

My experience has been that people in conflict -- including myself(!) are quite often beginning to touch their own truth when in conflict!

Judi


>>> jsmith at mosquitonet.com 08/28/01 15:45 PM >>>
Greetings!  I'm new to this conversation, and hope I'm not repeating
something already discussed.  Your conversation about truth is interesting
to me.

I spend some of my time mediating with people who are in conflict.  It seems
to me that people in conflict are usually not in touch with truth.  I
believe this to be true because in the beginning of my involvement with
people in conflict, the feeling in the room is usually one of anxiety,
tension, and fear.  These feelings don't evoke a sense of truth.  As time
passes, sometimes the feeling in the room changes to something closer to
warmth, understanding, and perhaps even humor and joy.  In these moments,
the sense of conflict is gone, and I feel that we have all somehow
experienced a glimmer of truth.

In thinking about what this something is that feels like truth, I came
across this idea from A Course In Miracles:

"Healing is a thought by which two minds perceive their oneness and become
glad."

I think we experience truth when we recognize our connection with each
other, and become glad.  Perhaps healing is what happens in the wake of
recognizing the truth of our connection with each other.  Maybe that is the
only truth that matters.

Julie

----- Original Message -----
From: Wolfgang.Oswald <Wolfgang.Oswald at wbg.at>
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Sent: Tuesday, August 28, 2001 7:02 AM
Subject: AW: Central Asia


> Heinz von Foerster says:
> "Wahrheit ist die Erfindung eines Luegners", which means:
> "Truth is the invention of a liar"
>
> THAT is truth, isn't it?
>
> Greetings and Kisses from Vienna,
> Wolfgang
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> -----Ursprüngliche Nachricht-----
> Von: Birgitt Williams [mailto:birgitt at mindspring.com]
> Gesendet: Dienstag, 28. August 2001 17:01
> An: OSLIST at LISTSERV.BOISESTATE.EDU
> Betreff: Re: Central Asia
>
>
> Kenoli,
> I am wondering what your thoughts are about "truth"--> relative truth,
> absolute truth, truth for the moment???? I agree it is powerful and I know
> my personal experience when I hear a "truth" and yet I cannot define what
> truth is.
>
> Blessings,
> Birgitt
>
> -----Original Message-----
> From: OSLIST [mailto:OSLIST at LISTSERV.BOISESTATE.EDU]On Behalf Of kenoli
> Oleari
> Sent: Monday, August 27, 2001 6:40 PM
> To: OSLIST at LISTSERV.BOISESTATE.EDU
> Subject: Re: Central Asia
>
>
> Uwe -- I think this quote from your email could be carved in stone
> somewhere;
>
> >"people can live with constraints and limitations, but not with
> >deception and lies."
>
> Truth is incredibly powerful, and the deeper the truth, the more
> powerful.  We need to tell our truths about ourselves, too, and about
> the costs that may come from accepting any particular set of
> constraints, or the costs we may have already paid.  Telling the
> truth can be used to justify not so desirable situations, also, when
> we do not feel free to act.  Truth is most powerful when it is given
> with authenticity and openness to honoring free choice within the
> existing constraints.  Can we honor our freedom and right and
> responsibility to act to determine our futures, as well as to talk
> about them?  Can we take full responsibility?
>
> Kenoli
>
> --
> Kenoli Oleari, Horizons of Change, http://www.horizonsofchange.com
> 1801 Fairview Street, Berkeley, CA  94703   Voice Phone: 510-601-8217,
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