Drop Off in Numbers

[Peg Holman]

>Asking people why they chose not
> to come feels like making them accountable to the "asker" for their
actions - a
> contradiction of the law of two feet.
>

BJ,

I think intention has a great deal to do with this.  When asking is tinged
with accusation or expectation of an accounting, then it is quite
inappropriate.  When it is done from a place of loving curiosity, I have
found it can open new territory to explore both for the asker and the asked.
Such questions for me have led to deeper, richer understanding and closer
relationships.

Peg Holman

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