Drop Off in Numbers
pholman at msn.com
Sat Dec 18 12:30:14 PST 1999
>Asking people why they chose not
> to come feels like making them accountable to the "asker" for their
actions - a
> contradiction of the law of two feet.
I think intention has a great deal to do with this. When asking is tinged
with accusation or expectation of an accounting, then it is quite
inappropriate. When it is done from a place of loving curiosity, I have
found it can open new territory to explore both for the asker and the asked.
Such questions for me have led to deeper, richer understanding and closer
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