[OSList] good questions

[Andrea Chiou via OSList]

The most open ended question I know (from the clean language coaching community) is : 
'What would you like to have happen?'

It still presumes a bit that each person wants to have something happen - but an answer can legitimately be 'nothing'.  

Or 'I want the world to sit still in peace for one day' or something very personally concrete and action oriented.





Best,

Andrea 

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> On Nov 19, 2015, at 1:49 PM, christine koehler via OSList <oslist at lists.openspacetech.org> wrote:
> 
> Chris,
>  
>> In my experience, “powerful questions” are more about me as the questioner than my trust in the group’s ability to find surprising meaning in conversation.
> 
> Love it ! but after reading your comment twice, I am not sure to understand what you mean
> 
> Do you mean that powerful questions have the ability to build meaning in conversation, that the questioner may find surprising ? Does it mean that you can only say afterwards that the question was powerful ?
> 
> This makes sense to me, as you never know what impact will have your words. As many of you I guess, I recall occasions where I people told me "this particular sentence - then something follows that you forget you said or that you find completely common,or  truism, - you said had a strong influence in my life". mmmmmm.  be prepared to be surprised . 
> 
> I must admit that I speak from a position where I find extremely difficult to frame (or to help frame) powerful  questions. There are so many "resistance"  around questions, that sometimes a group will just reject a formulation during prework and then accept it as something obvious when preparing the set-up or that sometimes the group doesn't care, no matter how cumbersome the question is framed, they will anyhow discuss the important issues. 
> so I stick to easy criteria : open question (no assumptions) , very short, can be interpreted in many many different ways, and that may lead to a quantity of solutions, not a single one. 
> 
> Would love to hear what other thinks about framing questions
> 
> Christine 
> 
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