making requests of leaders?
Raffi Aftandelian
raffi_1970 at YAHOO.COM
Mon Nov 29 08:50:04 PST 2010
Queridos amigos,
Christine, your question about the challenging OST event you are working on
encouraged me to post this question today. I've been meaning to put this out
for weeks.
I'm wondering how much it is a practice for all you to talk to or
communicate with leaders and managers who will be attending an OST event and
encourage them to *hold back* a little in order to equalize the power
dynamics a little in the OST event.
Specifically by *hold back* I mean:
- asking them to wait a little before posting topics
- for them not to feel like they need to post certain topics
- not to try to steer the conversation, or try to resolve conflicts
and ask them instead to participate as just one more person in the group.
This question was inspired by coming across the document "Ground rules for
Managers" in Lisa Heft's Open Space Idea Book. In that document, Lisa you go
through a number of things that you communicate to leaders and managers
ahead of an OST event, which include the requests above.
When I came across this document in the book a few years back, I was
surprised as I hadn't really heard of such a practice before.
And finally for the first time I used it recently. I run a bimonthly
Nonviolent Communication community practice event in OST (with one small- or
perhaps for some, not so small- change-- we start with a short centering
meditation)
And it's hard to gauge right now if making those requests have helped in any
way. The one person who I spoke to the longest about it seemed to ignore the
requests in the document (I adapted the document for my situation; and the
document explains that this is really something meant to be communicated
orally. Most people I told them briefly about this over the phone or in
person and then sent a full document over email).
I'm really excited about making those requests in future OST events where it
seems appropriate.
And Lisa especially, I'm wondering that since you self-published the OS Idea
Book, if your thinking around making those requests has changed.
Thanks all!
abrazos,
Raffi
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Dear friends
Have a look at CrisisCamp / Crisis Commons, which spun out of the
BarCamp community, itself based upon Open Space:
http://crisiscommons.org/about-us/
Not sure how much they're using Open Space on the ground, but the entire
thing is an attempt at an international open collaboration & Wiki
between relief agencies and volunteers everywhere they have an internet
connection. Impressive and worth supporting.
Martin Grimshaw
http://DecisionLab.org.uk
/WOSonOS London 2012/
On 29/11/10 16:30, Lisa Heft wrote:
> Hola Jaime -
>
> I am sure Gail West or other colleagues in Taiwan may share about OS
> being used by our colleagues in Taiwan - with villagers in the
> southern part of the island whose villages and lives have been
> dramatically affected by massive storms.
>
> Be well,
> Lisa
>
> *
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> Lisa Heft
> /
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> Consultant, Facilitator, Educator
> *Opening Space*
> lisaheft at openingspace.net <mailto:lisaheft at openingspace.net>
> On Nov 29, 2010, at 8:05 AM, Jaime Pedreros wrote:
>
>> Dear colleagues,
>>
>> I am preparing a presentation (45 minutes) about the participation of
>> the population, often called "victims" of natural disasters in the
>> process of recovering/reconstruction. I am absolutely sure that OS is
>> one of the most powerful methods for organizing and engaging people in
>> their own renaissance. Please let me know about cases and experiences
>> where OS was used and let me know your comments.
>>
>> Thanks and a great hug from warm La Paz
>>
>> Jaime
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<font face="FreeSans">Dear friends<br>
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Have a look at CrisisCamp / Crisis Commons, which spun out of the
BarCamp community, itself based upon Open Space:<br>
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<a class="moz-txt-link-freetext" href="http://crisiscommons.org/about-us/">http://crisiscommons.org/about-us/</a><br>
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Not sure how much they're using Open Space on the ground, but the
entire thing is an attempt at an international open collaboration &
Wiki between relief agencies and volunteers everywhere they have an
internet connection. Impressive and worth supporting.<br>
<br>
Martin Grimshaw<br>
<a class="moz-txt-link-freetext" href="http://DecisionLab.org.uk">http://DecisionLab.org.uk</a><br>
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On 29/11/10 16:30, Lisa Heft wrote:
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<div>I am sure Gail West or other colleagues in Taiwan may share
about OS being used by our colleagues in Taiwan - with villagers in the
southern part of the island whose villages and lives have been
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<div>Be well,</div>
<div>Lisa</div>
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<div>On Nov 29, 2010, at 8:05 AM, Jaime Pedreros wrote:</div>
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<div>Dear colleagues,<br>
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I am preparing a presentation (45 minutes) about the participation of<br>
the population, often called "victims" of natural disasters in the<br>
process of recovering/reconstruction. I am absolutely sure that OS is<br>
one of the most powerful methods for organizing and engaging people in<br>
their own renaissance. Please let me know about cases and experiences<br>
where OS was used and let me know your comments.<br>
<br>
Thanks and a great hug from warm La Paz<br>
<br>
Jaime<br>
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