On conflict

[Masud Sheikh]

Thank you for having taken the time and effort to write, Pat
As soon as I hit SEND, I regretted having said "I don't understand women"
when as you say, I was really talking about Therese. I even thought of
sending a correction, but finally did not do so.

And you are absolutely right about being the change we wish to see in the
world. No matter how hard one tries, it is so much easier to talk about
than do. I wish you had not compared me to Ralph though. After all, we are
two different individuals. From my perspective, I felt my request for
forgiveness for "reacting" to Therese's note was an advance apology and
showed an awareness about what I was doing. I felt that we on this list
were privileged to see Funda exposing her "current identity", and we
needed to be more respectful of her being willing to do so.

I had thoughts about some other points that you brought up. I have decided
not to rsepond to them on list. If you would like me to respond offlist,
please let me know.
Take care Pat
Masud

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