Sexual harassment topic
Esther Ewing
EwingChange at aol.com
Thu Apr 7 08:01:29 PDT 2005
Hi all:
I agree with Ralph that someone with an issue of sexual harassment might
wish to consider what they would like to get out of a discussion.
If they are hoping to deal with a specific incident or pattern of incidents,
hopefully the organization needs to have procedures in place for dealing
with this. For example, in Ontario, Canada, I am aware that one of the first
things that an employee experiencing harassment is asked to do is to request in
front of one other person that this person stop their behaviour. It's a
prerequisite to everything else and if the behaviour then goes away, nothing else
needs to happen. But the harasser must not be able to say that they were
unaware of the problem or to say that they didn't know their attentions were
unwelcome.
In more than one of the organizations I know about, that is just the first
step in an escalation of procedures well defined and laid out by the corporate
lawyers.
However, if what they are trying to achieve is some discussion that might
lead to the formulating of corporate procedures/support for the harassee or
other discussions of values in the workplace, etc., then Open Space is a
wonderful place to begin the discussion.
Just some thoughts
Esther
Hi,
A number of times in OS, participants have come to me and asked for help
wording a sensitive or complex topic. Longtime amateur wordsmith that I am,
I usually try to offer simple technical assistance. When the topic on their
mind is very sensitive, I suggest they find language that is clear but not
incendiary and that when they get into the session to make very clear what
they have in mind.
Another way to help such a person might be to suggest the topic be in the
strongest, clearest possible language to which they have no trouble signing
their name.
With regard to sexual harassment specifically, in the US (and I imagine
elsewhere) there are laws that cover such offenses that aim to protect
workers from abuse. An organization's lawyers ought to know about any
alleged incidents so they may be investigated fully. They should also be
informed about patterns of harassment, where specifics may be hard to pin
down. Open conversations about who is doing what to whom may lead to
mention of names, allegations against individuals that cannot be supported
by facts, embarrassment for those who have been harassed, and other painful
possibilities. Encouraging simple, open discussion on any topic by any
persons at any time may not be the best way to deal with this. Let us all
be very careful.
This is not to say that such topics are inappropriate for open space. I
think they are appropriate. But it's a question of how to be helpful if a
participant seeks our guidance about such a posting.
Ralph Copleman
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