conflict resolution (branching off from self organization...)

[Chris Weaver]

Julie wrote,

I wonder whether there are some important lessons for conflict resolution
professionals in the work you're doing.  I think the answer is yes, but I
haven't quite figured out what the lessons are. 

Not knowing much about the profession of conflict resolution, I expect that
there is a lot of resonance.

I imagine that there are many mediators who see themselves as space-holders
rather than fixers.

I imagine that there are mediators who in some way invite those "in
conflict" to consider a larger circle of viewpoints by holding space for a
diversity of voices - not just the polarized "other" but a circle of those
affected and those who care.

My friend does victim-offender mediation, sometimes in the aftermath of
violent crime.  There is much in common about how he and I prepare for our
work, but to me his space-holding requires more courage - warrior energy,
tested tried & true.  And an unwavering trust in & service to the
transforming power of love.

Interesting though...when I think of "conflict resolution" I picture two
people across a table from one another, with a mediator in between, and I
think, what a set-up.  How could there be healing without the circle?  How
could healing be sustained without a circle of "the right people," who have
responded to an open invitation?  And what would be the theme?

Thanks, Julie...I find a great deal to think about here.

Chris




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