Process question

[Scott Stillinger]

In a message dated 1/21/99 9:40:45 AM, dferrett at placer.ca.gov writes:

<< The other thing is that I've been treating this list sort of like a
     cyber open space so if I'm off track there I guess I'll find out. I
     wish there were an interactive real time cyber open space. Reaching 50
     kicked me into another learning mode.

     Don Ferretti >>

I haven't used metaphor for "open space", but I have used it in work with both
individuals and groups (reflective coaching with an appreciative perspective).
I find metaphors to be very powerful. My experience is that asking them for
the metaphor works best. For instance it could be: "Does anyone have a
metaphor for the importance of the list of things we've discussed?"

I always assume the wisdom resides within the individual and the group.
They'll have a great metaphor. Then the next time you might use their ideas as
a catalyst for the next group.

Last thing: I stopped using the word "metaphor" and changed it to "image". The
word metaphor can sound like they are in a classroom and tightened people up
in a group, as strange as that may sound.

People who had no "metaphor" for me, immediately had an "image" when asked. I
also give them permission to use dreams, movies, TV programs, or songs as an
aid to coming to their image or metaphor. I've had incredible results with
this.

Good luck!!

Scott Stillinger
Stillinger & Associates
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