<div dir="ltr">Hi Sara,<div>For all sorts of reasons, people give up their leadership of their lives, allowing their lives to be led by someone else, something else. We ask a question within our work, which is dedicated to nourishing a culture of leadership, "are you leading your life and if not, who or what is?". This question leads to important conversations, insights, breakthroughs...sometimes quickly, sometimes over a fairly long period of time. From my perspective, the discussion of leadership provides more usefulness in people claiming their power than the discussions of empowerment. The emphasis in the discussions about leadership focus on every person's innate ability to engage in leadership. Once that choice is made, there are additional ways to support people in learning to empower themselves, retain their energy, use their energy wisely and well.</div><div><br></div><div>I would be excited if the topic of leadership of one's life was part of core curriculum in schools at any age. The topic requires a change in the leadership paradigm from 'leading so that others will follow' to the paradigm 'leading so others will lead'. The new paradigm requires awareness of developing a culture of leadership in which leadership is valued. It is a life nurturing culture, rising above the life depleting cultures that are common.</div><div><br></div><div>I now relate this to the Open Space of the world, and then to the OST meeting.</div><div><br></div><div>People accepting self leadership and learning to work from their personal power rather than giving it away or 'leaking it' get on in the Open Space of the world, following what has heart and meaning, being present in the moment and using what Harrison coined 'the law of two feet'. At no point is there a guarantee by the Universe that the world is 'safe space'. I believe that Einstein, when answering the question of what the most important question for people to be able to answer was, said something like 'whether the Universe is a friendly or unfriendly place'. This is a pretty fundamental question about living on planet earth and all people, often subconsciously, wrestle with their answer to that question.</div><div><br></div><div>It is possible to take what I have highlighted above, and think about how this all relates to an OST meeting. For me, I do the following:</div><div><a href="http://1.in">1.in</a> the preparatory work with the formal leadership, we determine the theme, length of time needed, and the 'givens' related to the amount of space that they are opening in the organization for the innovation, creativity, recommendations, prioritization and sometimes decisions by the people. The early on challenges I had with OST were when the space was portrayed as bigger than it truly was...or smaller than it truly was.</div><div><br></div><div><a href="http://2.in">2.in</a> describing the law of two feet that I prefer to call the law of mobility, to make it clear that it is up to the people to use their mobility to move if they are not learning, not contributing....and it is possible at this point to add 'or for any reason not feeling safe'</div><div><br></div><div><a href="http://3.in">3.in</a> both preparation and facilitation, I never promise safe space. I don't believe that any of us can guarantee safe space for another. </div><div><br></div><div>No amount of some kind of 'training' to participate in an OST is going to solve what you have noted. </div><div><br></div><div>OST itself is a great 'tool' for giving people the opportunity to engage in their self leadership...and this can be beautifully enhanced by how the reflection circle at the end is done. When I learned OST from Harrison back in 1992, what I loved the most was how skillfully he had adjusted and then used what I recognized as the Medicine Wheel at the end of an OST for collective reflection. The first question he asked was 'what did you learn during this experience about leadership?'.</div><div><br></div><div>Several OST meetings within the same organization, over time, well done, with reflections for processing the experience can help to build and strengthen self leadership muscles.</div><div><br></div><div>in genuine contact,</div><div>Birgitt</div><div><div><br><div class="gmail_quote"><div dir="ltr">On Thu, Aug 23, 2018 at 6:05 AM Sarah Grange via OSList <<a href="mailto:oslist@lists.openspacetech.org">oslist@lists.openspacetech.org</a>> wrote:<br></div><blockquote class="gmail_quote" style="margin:0 0 0 .8ex;border-left:1px #ccc solid;padding-left:1ex"><div style="word-wrap:break-word">The question of “Safe spaces” has come up recently in our regular OST programme, following some incidents where participants felt there was racism and transphobia at our big annual event. There was a request for more rules or guidelines, which we’ve resisted, but it’s a thorny old issue because not everyone feels strong enough to call out bad behaviour when it happens, and the natural reaction is to look to us as organisers to discipline or regulate behaviour. There’s also a tendency for people to report bad behaviour after the event, so we’re unable to support or facilitate a conversation in the moment. I don’t know what to do about this beyond keep on having the conversation with participants. We eventually held an <a href="https://www.devotedanddisgruntled.com/Event/devoted-disgruntled-allies" target="_blank">OS specifically on the question of supporting people within Os</a> and there was considerable disagreement, with <a href="https://www.devotedanddisgruntled.com/Blog/does-dd-need-rules" target="_blank">some participants calling for rules</a> or <a href="https://www.devotedanddisgruntled.com/Blog/i-think-there-is-a-lot-of-assuming-prejudging-and-snap-comments-made-at-d-d-that-have-negative-impac" target="_blank">stronger guidelines on how to hold conversations</a> and <a href="https://www.devotedanddisgruntled.com/Blog/dd-producers-ally-to-do-list" target="_blank">others (including me)</a> feeling that would disempower people rather than support them, and was totally un-OST. The issue remains unresolved, so I’d love to know if anyone has tried anything along the guidelines/participant-led codes of conduct etc and whether there was any success with that.. <div><div><br></div><div><br><div><br></div><div><br><div><blockquote type="cite"><div>On 21 Aug 2018, at 21:31, <a href="mailto:oslist-request@lists.openspacetech.org" target="_blank">oslist-request@lists.openspacetech.org</a> wrote:</div><br class="m_7299120751438670774Apple-interchange-newline"><div>Send OSList mailing list submissions to<br><span class="m_7299120751438670774Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre-wrap"> </span><a href="mailto:oslist@lists.openspacetech.org" target="_blank">oslist@lists.openspacetech.org</a><br><br>To subscribe or unsubscribe via the World Wide Web, visit<br><span class="m_7299120751438670774Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre-wrap"> </span><a href="http://lists.openspacetech.org/listinfo.cgi/oslist-openspacetech.org" target="_blank">http://lists.openspacetech.org/listinfo.cgi/oslist-openspacetech.org</a><br>or, via email, send a message with subject or body 'help' to<br><span class="m_7299120751438670774Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre-wrap"> </span><a href="mailto:oslist-request@lists.openspacetech.org" target="_blank">oslist-request@lists.openspacetech.org</a><br><br>You can reach the person managing the list at<br><span class="m_7299120751438670774Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre-wrap"> </span><a href="mailto:oslist-owner@lists.openspacetech.org" target="_blank">oslist-owner@lists.openspacetech.org</a><br><br>When replying, please edit your Subject line so it is more specific<br>than "Re: Contents of OSList digest..."<br><br><br>Today's Topics:<br><br> 1. 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Katzenberger" <<a href="mailto:rolf.katzenberger@gmx.net" target="_blank">rolf.katzenberger@gmx.net</a>><br>To: World wide Open Space Technology email list<br><span class="m_7299120751438670774Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre-wrap"> </span><<a href="mailto:oslist@lists.openspacetech.org" target="_blank">oslist@lists.openspacetech.org</a>>, David Osborne via OSList<br><span class="m_7299120751438670774Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre-wrap"> </span><<a href="mailto:oslist@lists.openspacetech.org" target="_blank">oslist@lists.openspacetech.org</a>><br>Subject: Re: [OSList] A Question About Safety<br>Message-ID: <<a href="mailto:AD226D32-0425-48E7-9A00-D630206BB9AE@gmx.net" target="_blank">AD226D32-0425-48E7-9A00-D630206BB9AE@gmx.net</a>><br>Content-Type: text/plain; charset="utf-8"<br><br>David,<br><br>Having read your later explanation of "safe", I feel it's also useful to look a bit closer at "self-organization".<br><br>From a systemic perspective, it is impossible for a complex system (like an org, or a group of people within) to *not* self-organize. It does not matter whether conditions are great, indifferent or lousy, groups of people will self-organize and adapt, as they always have.<br><br>So, while we may be unhappy about the *results* of it, self-organization in itself cannot be stopped by too much safety. It is a capability and power we can always rely on, for better or worse.<br><br>It seems we rather need to focus more on the desired results, i.e. on the words immediately following the word "self-organizing...". Like e.g. "... team". By stressing "self-organization" instead, and e.g. contrasting it to "passiveness" or "complacency" or "too much safety", we might simply be barking up the wrong tree.<br><br>So, coming back to your question, I'd reply with another question: If you're not happy about the current results of self-organization - what different results would you like to see, instead, and how could you modify the conditions so that it becomes more likely for self-organization to work towards the desired results.<br><br>Just my 2 cents,<br>Rolf<br><br>Am 21. August 2018 06:49:20 MESZ schrieb David Osborne via OSList <<a href="mailto:oslist@lists.openspacetech.org" target="_blank">oslist@lists.openspacetech.org</a>>:<br><blockquote type="cite">Greetings all,<br><br>I have questions about safety related to self-organization I would love<br>others thoughts on.<br><br>Is it possible for an environment can be too safe to support<br>self-organization? 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