<div dir="ltr">i think robyn must have been thinking OST-f version... that would be Open Space Tech -facilitator version, which would purposefully de-emphasize the subject who was facilitating, so as to make it easier to disappear soon after asking. to say "I wonder..." and then disappear a few minutes later, just as everyone started answering, might seem rude! <grin> <div><br></div><div>i am starting to wonder, daniel... how would you frame the question? </div><div><br></div><div><br></div><div><br></div></div><div class="gmail_extra"><br clear="all"><div><div class="gmail_signature"><div dir="ltr"><div><div dir="ltr"><div><div dir="ltr"><div> <br>--<br><br>Michael Herman<br>Michael Herman Associates</div><div><span style="font-size:12.8px">312-280-7838 (mobile)</span><br style="font-size:12.8px"></div><div><span style="font-size:12.8px"><br></span></div><div><a href="http://MichaelHerman.com" target="_blank">http://MichaelHerman.com</a><br><a href="http://OpenSpaceWorld.org" target="_blank">http://OpenSpaceWorld.org</a></div><div><br><br></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div>
<br><div class="gmail_quote">On Thu, Nov 19, 2015 at 10:29 PM, Daniel Mezick via OSList <span dir="ltr"><<a href="mailto:oslist@lists.openspacetech.org" target="_blank">oslist@lists.openspacetech.org</a>></span> wrote:<br><blockquote class="gmail_quote" style="margin:0 0 0 .8ex;border-left:1px #ccc solid;padding-left:1ex">
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Robyn, here is the Subject-Verb-Object Present-tense version of your
NVC question "<i><span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1f497d">“What
do you need”</span></i>: <br>
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SVO-p version:<br>
"I wonder what you need."<br>
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See also:<br>
<a href="http://www.seykota.com/tribe/TT_Process/SVO-p/index.htm" target="_blank">http://www.seykota.com/tribe/TT_Process/SVO-p/index.htm</a><br>
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<div>On 11/19/15 6:24 PM, Robyn Williams ►
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1f497d">Hi,
what a lovely thread </span><span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:Wingdings;color:#1f497d">J</span><span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1f497d"><u></u><u></u></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1f497d"><u></u> <u></u></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1f497d">From
Nonviolent Communication, I find <i>“What do you need?”</i>
to be very effective in centring and grounding individuals
before considering strategic responses.<u></u><u></u></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><i><span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1f497d">“What
do you need”</span></i><span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1f497d">
is about “legitimate needs” (Galtung), ie what’s really
important to you, or what really matters here? Rather
than/before asking “what do you think should/could happen?”<u></u><u></u></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1f497d"><u></u> <u></u></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1f497d"><u></u> <u></u></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1f497d">Cheers
Robyn<u></u><u></u></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top:1.0pt"><span style="font-size:4.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1f497d"><u></u> <u></u></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top:1.0pt"><span style="font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1f497d">Robyn
Williams<u></u><u></u></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top:1.0pt"><b><span style="font-size:16.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#8db3e2">See</span></b><b><span style="font-size:16.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#548dd4">Change</span></b><b><span style="font-size:16.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#c6d9f1">WA</span></b><span style="font-size:16.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1f497d"><u></u><u></u></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top:1.0pt"><span style="font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1f497d">Communicate,
facilitate and educate<u></u><u></u></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top:1.0pt"><span style="font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1f497d">for
sustainability</span><span style="font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1f497d"><u></u><u></u></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top:1.0pt"><span style="font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1f497d">E:
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1f497d">Fremantle
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