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Robyn, here is the Subject-Verb-Object Present-tense version of your
NVC question "<i><span
style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D">“What
do you need”</span></i>: <br>
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SVO-p version:<br>
"I wonder what you need."<br>
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See also:<br>
<a class="moz-txt-link-freetext" href="http://www.seykota.com/tribe/TT_Process/SVO-p/index.htm">http://www.seykota.com/tribe/TT_Process/SVO-p/index.htm</a><br>
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<div class="moz-cite-prefix">On 11/19/15 6:24 PM, Robyn Williams ►
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span
style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D">Hi,
what a lovely thread </span><span
style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:Wingdings;color:#1F497D">J</span><span
style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span
style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D"><o:p> </o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span
style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D">From
Nonviolent Communication, I find <i>“What do you need?”</i>
to be very effective in centring and grounding individuals
before considering strategic responses.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><i><span
style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D">“What
do you need”</span></i><span
style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D">
is about “legitimate needs” (Galtung), ie what’s really
important to you, or what really matters here? Rather
than/before asking “what do you think should/could happen?”<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span
style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D"><o:p> </o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span
style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D">Cheers
Robyn<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top:1.0pt"><span
style="font-size:4.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D"><o:p> </o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top:1.0pt"><span
style="font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D">Robyn
Williams<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top:1.0pt"><b><span
style="font-size:16.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#8DB3E2">See</span></b><b><span
style="font-size:16.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#548DD4">Change</span></b><b><span
style="font-size:16.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#C6D9F1">WA</span></b><span
style="font-size:16.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top:1.0pt"><span
style="font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D">Communicate,
facilitate and educate<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top:1.0pt"><span
style="font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D">for
sustainability</span><span
style="font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top:1.0pt"><span
style="font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D">M:
0424 587 262<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top:1.0pt"><span
style="font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D">E:
<a moz-do-not-send="true" href="mailto:pov@iinet.net.au">pov@iinet.net.au</a><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span
style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D">Fremantle
~ Geraldton<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span
style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D">Western
Australia<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span
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