<html><body><div style="color:#000; background-color:#fff; font-family:times new roman, new york, times, serif;font-size:16px"><div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1434444485390_50635"><span id="yui_3_16_0_1_1434444485390_51179"></span></div><div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1434444485390_51099">Interesting question and interesting suggestions....</div><div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1434444485390_51166"><br></div><div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1434444485390_51173">And no one can say that this is contrary to "one less thing to do", as silence is "not doing" ;-)</div><div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1434444485390_51174"><br></div><div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1434444485390_51175">Artur</div> <div style="font-family: times new roman, new york, times, serif; font-size: 16px;" id="yui_3_16_0_1_1434444485390_50632"> <div style="font-family: HelveticaNeue, Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Arial, Lucida Grande, sans-serif; font-size: 16px;" id="yui_3_16_0_1_1434444485390_50631"> <div dir="ltr" id="yui_3_16_0_1_1434444485390_50630"> <hr size="1" id="yui_3_16_0_1_1434444485390_51246"> <font size="2" face="Arial" id="yui_3_16_0_1_1434444485390_50634"> <b><span style="font-weight:bold;">From:</span></b> Chris Corrigan via OSList <oslist@lists.openspacetech.org><br> <b><span style="font-weight: bold;">To:</span></b> Michael Herman <michael@michaelherman.com>; World wide Open Space Technology email list <oslist@lists.openspacetech.org> <br> <b><span style="font-weight: bold;">Sent:</span></b> Tuesday, June 16, 2015 3:25 AM<br> <b><span style="font-weight: bold;">Subject:</span></b> Re: [OSList] No silence in opening<br> </font> </div> <div class="y_msg_container" id="yui_3_16_0_1_1434444485390_50633"><br><div id="yiv6126466084"><div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1434444485390_50677">Yes to this…<div class="yiv6126466084" id="yui_3_16_0_1_1434444485390_50718"><br clear="none" class="yiv6126466084"></div><div class="yiv6126466084" id="yui_3_16_0_1_1434444485390_50678">These days no matter what process I am doing, if I offer a minute of silence, instead of looking at a clock, I just count twelve slow breaths. That way you don;t make people anxious and you get a little meditation practice in. The longest I ever did this for was 15 minutes with a group of 180 theological educators. I counted 180 breaths. Many of them said they had never sat that long in silence with other human beings before. We did it to allow people to reflect on an important and energetic conflict in the gathering. It changed everything, and was indeed the simplest liberating structure I can think of.</div><div class="yiv6126466084" id="yui_3_16_0_1_1434444485390_50717"><br clear="none" class="yiv6126466084"></div><div class="yiv6126466084" id="yui_3_16_0_1_1434444485390_50716">C</div><div class="yiv6126466084" id="yui_3_16_0_1_1434444485390_50679"><br clear="none" class="yiv6126466084"><div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1434444485390_50684"><blockquote class="yiv6126466084" type="cite" id="yui_3_16_0_1_1434444485390_50683"><div class="qtdSeparateBR"><br><br></div><div class="yiv6126466084yqt8485229705" id="yiv6126466084yqtfd83110"><div class="yiv6126466084" id="yui_3_16_0_1_1434444485390_50715">On Jun 15, 2015, at 10:37 AM, Michael Herman via OSList <<a rel="nofollow" shape="rect" class="yiv6126466084" ymailto="mailto:oslist@lists.openspacetech.org" target="_blank" href="mailto:oslist@lists.openspacetech.org">oslist@lists.openspacetech.org</a>> wrote:</div><br clear="none" class="yiv6126466084Apple-interchange-newline"><div class="yiv6126466084" id="yui_3_16_0_1_1434444485390_50682"><div class="yiv6126466084" dir="ltr" id="yui_3_16_0_1_1434444485390_50681">i think you can build it in, as much or as little as you feel is right for each situation, harold, just in the pacing of your opening briefing, if you like. you ring the bells, silence happens. you decide when to bump that silence with walking into the circle. you decide when to break it when you start talking. you put space between sentences and the different parts of your briefing. <div class="yiv6126466084" id="yui_3_16_0_1_1434444485390_50714"><br clear="none" class="yiv6126466084"></div><div class="yiv6126466084" id="yui_3_16_0_1_1434444485390_51247">i saw a video of myself in a circle of about 300, one big circle. my pacing was, for me, excrutiatingly slow to watch. but i also had what felt like a lot of ground to cover, to get around and engage with folks all along that circle. when i finished, people literally ran to the center of the circle. so i think it worked pretty well.</div><div class="yiv6126466084" id="yui_3_16_0_1_1434444485390_51248"><br clear="none" class="yiv6126466084"></div><div class="yiv6126466084" id="yui_3_16_0_1_1434444485390_50713">lisa kimball suggested to me recently that a minute of silence is one of the simplest possible liberating structure. (<a rel="nofollow" shape="rect" class="yiv6126466084" target="_blank" href="http://liberatingstructures.com/">liberatingstructures.com</a>) she describes taking a minute at the beginning of a meeting, not in a woo-woo way, but in a very practical way: we're all busy people, coming from different places, let's take EXACTLY on minute to let brains finish where they've been and get ready for the work we're about to do here... will be long for some and too short for others, but promise it will be EXACTLY a minute... and then we'll dive into [the work]. her liberating structures materials might be posted somewhere at <a rel="nofollow" shape="rect" class="yiv6126466084" target="_blank" href="http://groupjazz.com/">groupjazz.com</a></div><div class="yiv6126466084"><br clear="none" class="yiv6126466084"></div><div class="yiv6126466084" id="yui_3_16_0_1_1434444485390_50680">m</div><div class="yiv6126466084" id="yui_3_16_0_1_1434444485390_50712"><br clear="none" class="yiv6126466084"></div><div class="yiv6126466084"><br clear="none" class="yiv6126466084"></div><div class="yiv6126466084"><br clear="none" class="yiv6126466084"></div><div class="yiv6126466084"><br clear="none" class="yiv6126466084"></div></div><div class="yiv6126466084gmail_extra" id="yui_3_16_0_1_1434444485390_50689"><br clear="all" class="yiv6126466084"><div class="yiv6126466084" id="yui_3_16_0_1_1434444485390_50688"><div class="yiv6126466084gmail_signature" id="yui_3_16_0_1_1434444485390_50687"><div class="yiv6126466084" dir="ltr" id="yui_3_16_0_1_1434444485390_50686"><div class="yiv6126466084" id="yui_3_16_0_1_1434444485390_50685"> <br clear="none" class="yiv6126466084">--<br clear="none" class="yiv6126466084"><br clear="none" class="yiv6126466084">Michael Herman<br clear="none" class="yiv6126466084">Michael Herman Associates<br clear="none" class="yiv6126466084"><a rel="nofollow" shape="rect" class="yiv6126466084" target="_blank" href="http://michaelherman.com/">http://MichaelHerman.com</a><br clear="none" class="yiv6126466084"><a rel="nofollow" shape="rect" class="yiv6126466084" target="_blank" href="http://openspaceworld.org/">http://OpenSpaceWorld.org</a><br clear="none" class="yiv6126466084"><br clear="none" class="yiv6126466084"></div></div></div></div>
<br clear="none" class="yiv6126466084"><div class="yiv6126466084gmail_quote" id="yui_3_16_0_1_1434444485390_50692">On Mon, Jun 15, 2015 at 12:15 PM, Harold Shinsato via OSList <span class="yiv6126466084" dir="ltr"><<a rel="nofollow" shape="rect" class="yiv6126466084" ymailto="mailto:oslist@lists.openspacetech.org" target="_blank" href="mailto:oslist@lists.openspacetech.org">oslist@lists.openspacetech.org</a>></span> wrote:<br clear="none" class="yiv6126466084"><blockquote class="yiv6126466084gmail_quote" style="margin:0 0 0 .8ex;border-left:1px #ccc solid;padding-left:1ex;" id="yui_3_16_0_1_1434444485390_50691">
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The Open Space for the Jeannette Rankin Peace Center (<a rel="nofollow" shape="rect" class="yiv6126466084" target="_blank" href="http://civicrm.jrpc.org/rising-from-the-ashes">http://civicrm.jrpc.org/rising-from-the-ashes</a>)
I facilitated this Saturday went extremely well. We had a full day
of sessions and high levels of engagement, and the center's
Executive Director said it way exceeded her expectations.<br clear="none" class="yiv6126466084">
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After sitting in the glow of so many thank you's, gratitude, and
"good job" the day of the event and afterwards - I was surprised and
quite annoyed by a bit of feed back second hand through email...<br clear="none" class="yiv6126466084">
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"there should have been a 5-minute or so thinking time."<br clear="none" class="yiv6126466084">
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"Some people needed more quiet time to gather there thoughts."<br clear="none" class="yiv6126466084">
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As people become more familiar with Open Space, my personal
experience is that rather than a long awkward and anxiety filled
pause as facilitators worry if anyone will post a session - instead,
especially in public OST events, people launch and line up to
populate the agenda. This has bothered me, but this is the first
time I've heard the complaint of a *lack* of silence in the opening.<br clear="none" class="yiv6126466084">
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After my initial annoyance, and speaking with an Open Space
colleague, my wife, and another space holding professional, I
wondered if this weren't actually something that can help there be
authentic open space, and not just a cargo cult going through the
motions.<br clear="none" class="yiv6126466084">
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I'm pondering a way to help there be space before people come to the
center to announce their sessions - but without doing some heavy
facilitated silence or meditation process.<br clear="none" class="yiv6126466084">
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Any thoughts, suggestions?<br clear="none" class="yiv6126466084">
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Thank you!<span class="yiv6126466084HOEnZb"><font class="yiv6126466084" color="#888888"><br clear="none" class="yiv6126466084">
Harold<br clear="none" class="yiv6126466084">
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</font></span><div class="yiv6126466084" id="yui_3_16_0_1_1434444485390_50693">-- <br clear="none" class="yiv6126466084">
Harold Shinsato<br clear="none" class="yiv6126466084">
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