<div dir="ltr">Hi Harold!<div><br></div><div>I often like to suggest in my description of the marketplace that people give themselves time to reflect on what they might like to offer and assure them that we will have enough time for everyone to get their thoughts out on the wall. </div><div><br></div><div>I also often add a "last call" when the popcorn seems to have all been popped and remind people that there is still time to think and add your thoughts before we get started and then allow whatever silence there is as people sit and often a few pop up. </div><div><br></div><div>You could mention in the intro that you will allow a bit of time toward the end of the flurry for people to ponder after they have listened to the group. Expectation setting helps so much, in my experience, and then people can be comfortable listening when there is a rush and know that they will have time to think quietly at the end. </div><div><br></div><div>:)</div></div><div class="gmail_extra"><br clear="all"><div><div class="gmail_signature">Tricia Chirumbole<br>US: +1-571-232-0942<br>Skype: tricia.chirumbole<br><br><div style="padding:0px;margin-left:0px;margin-top:0px;overflow:hidden;word-wrap:break-word;color:black;font-size:10px;text-align:left;line-height:130%"></div><input type="hidden"><input type="hidden"><div></div></div></div>
<br><div class="gmail_quote">On Mon, Jun 15, 2015 at 1:52 PM, Lisa Heft - via OSList <span dir="ltr"><<a href="mailto:oslist@lists.openspacetech.org" target="_blank">oslist@lists.openspacetech.org</a>></span> wrote:<br><blockquote class="gmail_quote" style="margin:0 0 0 .8ex;border-left:1px #ccc solid;padding-left:1ex"><div style="word-wrap:break-word">Harold,<div>I think the key is not to *add* something that is not for everyone, but to always work in a *way* that includes everyone. <div>Which you I am sure do.</div><div><br></div><div>So designing ample time for a non-rushed Opening Circle is one of the keys. </div><div>Giving time for both the quick responders and the reflective thinkers. Breathing.</div><div>Being calm and centered and not rushing your own way of speaking as you explain the principles and process.</div><div>All those things.</div><div><br></div><div>“there should have been” or “some people” is often what one person may have enjoyed or needed but not always a spark for changing something for 100% of people.</div><div><br></div><div>I think if there was enough time for Opening Circle, with clarity that you will wait as folks who may still be thinking, reflecting and writing have their time as well, you are making visible the power and nature of invitation for differences. And the breathing… is in there…</div><div>Lisa</div><span class=""><div><br></div><div><div><blockquote type="cite"><div class="gmail_extra"> <br><div class="gmail_quote">On Mon, Jun 15, 2015 at 12:15 PM, Harold Shinsato via OSList <span dir="ltr"><<a href="mailto:oslist@lists.openspacetech.org" target="_blank">oslist@lists.openspacetech.org</a>></span> wrote:<br><blockquote class="gmail_quote" style="margin:0px 0px 0px 0.8ex;border-left-width:1px;border-left-color:rgb(204,204,204);border-left-style:solid;padding-left:1ex">
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The Open Space for the Jeannette Rankin Peace Center (<a href="http://civicrm.jrpc.org/rising-from-the-ashes" target="_blank">http://civicrm.jrpc.org/rising-from-the-ashes</a>)
I facilitated this Saturday went extremely well. We had a full day
of sessions and high levels of engagement, and the center's
Executive Director said it way exceeded her expectations.<br>
<br>
After sitting in the glow of so many thank you's, gratitude, and
"good job" the day of the event and afterwards - I was surprised and
quite annoyed by a bit of feed back second hand through email...<br>
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"there should have been a 5-minute or so thinking time."<br>
<br>
"Some people needed more quiet time to gather there thoughts."<br>
<br>
As people become more familiar with Open Space, my personal
experience is that rather than a long awkward and anxiety filled
pause as facilitators worry if anyone will post a session - instead,
especially in public OST events, people launch and line up to
populate the agenda. This has bothered me, but this is the first
time I've heard the complaint of a *lack* of silence in the opening.<br>
<br>
After my initial annoyance, and speaking with an Open Space
colleague, my wife, and another space holding professional, I
wondered if this weren't actually something that can help there be
authentic open space, and not just a cargo cult going through the
motions.<br>
<br>
I'm pondering a way to help there be space before people come to the
center to announce their sessions - but without doing some heavy
facilitated silence or meditation process.<br>
<br>
Any thoughts, suggestions?<br>
<br>
Thank you!<span><font color="#888888"><br>
Harold<br>
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Harold Shinsato<br>
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