<html><body style="word-wrap: break-word; -webkit-nbsp-mode: space; -webkit-line-break: after-white-space; ">Although I didn't know Cheryl, I can feel the profound shock wave this has sent through the community. My heart goes out to all who knew her, my condolences at this difficult time, and my love goes with Her spirit.<div>Amerie</div><div><br><div><div>On 28 Apr 2013, at 14:38, doug wrote:</div><br class="Apple-interchange-newline"><blockquote type="cite"><div>Oh, no!<br><br><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span>:- Doug.<br><br><br><br>On 04/28/2013 09:32 AM, Esther Ewing wrote:<br><blockquote type="cite">Oh how very sad. Cheryl and I spoke just a few weeks ago although I<br></blockquote><blockquote type="cite">didn't know her very well.<br></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><br></blockquote><blockquote type="cite">Big Tree Strategies<br></blockquote><blockquote type="cite">Tel: 416-792-0971<br></blockquote><blockquote type="cite">Cell: 647-461-0971<br></blockquote><blockquote type="cite">Change that's grounded<br></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><br></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><br></blockquote><blockquote type="cite">On Apr 28, 2013, at 9:23 AM, Raffi Aftandelian <<a href="mailto:raffi_1970@yahoo.com">raffi_1970@yahoo.com</a><br></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><<a href="mailto:raffi_1970@yahoo.com">mailto:raffi_1970@yahoo.com</a>>> wrote:<br></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><br></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite">Friends,<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"><br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite">Lucas Cioffi just passed on this very tragic news (which came from the<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite">NCDD list).<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"><br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite">A fair number of us knew Cheryl Honey and the approach she had<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite">brought into the world, Community Weaving.<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"><br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite">Cheryl, you will remain in my heart.<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"><br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite">warmly,<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite">raffi<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"><br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite">On Sat, Apr 27, 2013 at 6:52 PM, Sandy Heierbacher <<a href="mailto:sandy@ncdd.org">sandy@ncdd.org</a><br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"><<a href="mailto:sandy@ncdd.org">mailto:sandy@ncdd.org</a>>> wrote:<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"><br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"> I am so sorry to have to share this news with all of you, and I'm<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"> still a little in shock at this news myself. I found out earlier<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"> today that one of our members and colleagues, Cheryl Honey, was<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"> killed on Wednesday. Cheryl was recently engaged to a man named<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"> Robert Hedgers, and they were living together in Vancouver.<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"> Cheryl and Robert were both found dead in their home on<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"> Wednesday, and yesterday police reported that it was a<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"> murder-suicide. Cheryl was shot in the arm and the chest, and<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"> Robert turned the gun on himself.<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"><br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"> There is not a lot of information on this tragedy online, but here<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"> are two articles that provide the basics:<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"><br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"> Couple found dead were recently engaged -<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"> <a href="http://www.columbian.com/news/2013/apr/25/police-investigating-death-man-woman-found-vancouv/">http://www.columbian.com/news/2013/apr/25/police-investigating-death-man-woman-found-vancouv/</a><br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"> Medical Examiner: Couple died in murder-suicide -<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"> <a href="http://www.columbian.com/news/2013/apr/26/medical-examiner-couple-died-murder-suicide/">http://www.columbian.com/news/2013/apr/26/medical-examiner-couple-died-murder-suicide/</a><br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"><br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"> As some of you know, Cheryl was the founder of the Family Support<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"> Network International and Community Weaving. She often wrote to<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"> the listserv about community weaving, and many of you met her at<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"> the Seattle conference. She also attended our 2010 regional event<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"> in Portland (she was living in Seattle until recently), and came<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"> down to Austin for our 2008 conference.<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"><br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"> Cheryl was a very kind person, and she was dedicated to<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"> encouraging neighbors to connect with one another to share<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"> resources and build local networks of support. I'll paste a<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"> description of Community Weaving below. Cheryl wrote this<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"> description, and we posted it on the NCDD site last year.<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"><br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"> I am so sorry to upset any of you with this horrific news, but I<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"> knew many of you would want to know this has happened to Cheryl.<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"> I do not have information at this point about her memorial, or<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"> where cards or donations can be sent. I will let the list know<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"> when I do.<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"><br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"> Sandy Heierbacher<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"> Director, National Coalition for Dialogue & Deliberation<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"> sandy@ncdd.org <<a href="mailto:sandy@ncdd.org">mailto:sandy@ncdd.org</a>> • <a href="http://www.ncdd.org">www.ncdd.org</a><br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"> <<a href="http://www.ncdd.org/">http://www.ncdd.org/</a>> • @ncdd & @heierbacher<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"><br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"><br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"> Community Weaving <<a href="http://www.communityweaving.org/">http://www.communityweaving.org/</a>> (CW) is a<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"> social architecture that syncs existing programs and initiatives<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"> to create an interdependent functioning whole community system.<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"> Learn more at <a href="http://www.communityweaving.org">www.communityweaving.org</a><br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"> <<a href="http://www.communityweaving.org/">http://www.communityweaving.org/</a>>.<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"> In Seattle, volunteers contributed approximately 175,000 hours,<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"> valued at $2.6 million in community service on a budget of less<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"> than $12,000. Community Weaving leverages real change to deal with<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"> the challenges impacting relationships, neighborhoods, communities<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"> and the nation. A description of Community Weaving is in the<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"> Change Handbook (2nd Ed.) and referred to as a structural change<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"> methodology. The approach creates a reciprocal feedback loop that<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"> generates data that informs governing systems where to allocate<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"> funds and upgrade responsiveness to empower the people, as well as<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"> creates a voice of “we the people” on public policy issues using<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"> action research, dialogue and Community Forums. Community Weaving<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"> is a useful strategy to increase engagement levels and ignite the<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"> community spirit to create a more caring, just and civil society.<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"><br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"> Also, here is her NCDD bio:<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"> Cheryl Honey,pioneered Community Weaving and received the<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"> prestigious Jefferson Award, the mini-Nobel Prize for Public<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"> Service. Community Weaving is an innovative change method featured<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"> in the Change Handbook (2nd Ed.) that shifts hierarchical<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"> community silos into interdependent functioning whole community<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"> systems.Communities tap her expertise to develop innovative<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"> solutions to challenges affecting lives and the community. Cheryl<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"> is an Ambassador for Peace, recipient of the Excellence in<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"> Leadership Award and received the Giraffe Award, for sticking her<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"> neck out for peace and justice for all.<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"><br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"> ------------------------------------------------------------------------<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"><br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"> NCDD Logo <<a href="http://ncdd.org/">http://ncdd.org/</a>><br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"> NCDD's discussion and announcement lists are generously donated by<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"> L-Soft (www.lsoft.com <<a href="http://www.lsoft.com/">http://www.lsoft.com/</a>>) and are powered by<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"> L-Soft's LISTSERV mailing list management software<br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"> (<a href="http://www.lsoft.com/LISTSERV-powered.html">www.lsoft.com/LISTSERV-powered.html</a><br></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><blockquote type="cite"> <<a href="http://www.lsoft.com/LISTSERV-powered.html">http://www.lsoft.com/LISTSERV-powered.html</a>>). 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