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I believe you are on target. Part of the issue of not being abel to formulate a question as I hear it is that he is so overwhelmed with the raw emotions that he is unclear about why meet in the first place, or maybe, or he is wondering how or where to begin a conversation of such magnitude--riding on a whale looking for a minnow.<div><br></div><div>I like the simplicity of your question.</div><div><br></div><div>Thanks,</div><div>Craig<br><div><div><br></div><br><div><div id="SkyDrivePlaceholder"></div><hr id="stopSpelling">From: hhowen@verizon.net<br>To: oslist@lists.openspacetech.org<br>Date: Tue, 18 Sep 2012 07:44:07 -0400<br>Subject: Re: [OSList] Craig<br><br><style><!--
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--></style><div class="ecxWordSection1"><p class="ecxMsoNormal"><span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D">The question is always critical but needn’t be difficult to formulate. In fact I have often found that folks who had difficulty shaping a question were often not very sure why they wanted to meet in the first place. But that is probably not the situation here. Anyhow, I would suggest something a little less complicated and rather more positive – like: “What are the issues and opportunities for creating a business (organization) we would really love to be a part of.” Actually it is my “catch all” question and it is never failed. </span></p><p class="ecxMsoNormal"><span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D"> </span></p><p class="ecxMsoNormal"><span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D">Harrison</span></p><p class="ecxMsoNormal"><span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D"> </span></p><div><p class="ecxMsoNormal"><span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D">Harrison Owen</span></p><p class="ecxMsoNormal"><span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D">7808 River Falls Dr.</span></p><p class="ecxMsoNormal"><span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D">Potomac, MD 20854</span></p><p class="ecxMsoNormal"><span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D">USA</span></p><p class="ecxMsoNormal"><span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D"> </span></p><p class="ecxMsoNormal"><span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D">189 Beaucaire Ave. (summer)</span></p><p class="ecxMsoNormal"><span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D">Camden, Maine 20854</span></p><p class="ecxMsoNormal"><span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D"> </span></p><p class="ecxMsoNormal"><span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D">Phone 301-365-2093</span></p><p class="ecxMsoNormal"><span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D">(summer) 207-763-3261</span></p><p class="ecxMsoNormal"><span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D"> </span></p><p class="ecxMsoNormal"><span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D"><a href="http://www.openspaceworld.com%20" target="_blank">www.openspaceworld.com</a> </span></p><p class="ecxMsoNormal"><span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D"><a href="http://www.ho-image.com%20" target="_blank">www.ho-image.com</a> (Personal Website)</span></p><p class="ecxMsoNormal"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:Consolas;color:#1F497D">To subscribe, unsubscribe, change your options, view the archives of OSLIST Go to:<a href="http://lists.openspacetech.org/listinfo.cgi/oslist-openspacetech.org" target="_blank">http://lists.openspacetech.org/listinfo.cgi/oslist-openspacetech.org</a></span></p></div><p class="ecxMsoNormal"><span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D"> </span></p><div><div style="border:none;border-top:solid #B5C4DF 1.0pt;padding:3.0pt 0in 0in 0in"><p class="ecxMsoNormal"><b><span style="font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif"">From:</span></b><span style="font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif""> oslist-bounces@lists.openspacetech.org [mailto:oslist-bounces@lists.openspacetech.org] <b>On Behalf Of </b>Craig Gilliam<br><b>Sent:</b> Monday, September 17, 2012 10:24 PM<br><b>To:</b> oslist@lists.openspacetech.org<br><b>Subject:</b> [OSList] Craig</span></p></div></div><p class="ecxMsoNormal"> </p><div><p class="ecxMsoNormal"> </p><p class="ecxMsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"">Last minute, I was asked by the leader to come into an organization that is suffering some difficult decisions, consequences of decisions and trauma. They are described as angry, hurt, frustrated, feeling helpless, etc. . . an amalgamation of emotions. </span></p><p class="ecxMsoNormal"> </p><p class="ecxMsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"">As the leader and I spoke, I realized, this is ripe for open space conversation or some hybrid thereof. But there is not time or context for a committee to develop the question. Consequently, I asked the leader for a question that would frame the conversation.</span></p><p class="ecxMsoNormal"> </p><p class="ecxMsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"">HIs goal is to help him and the group get some handles so they can move forward. There will be 50 to 60 people present. They are invited to engage-- </span></p><p class="ecxMsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"Arial","sans-serif""> </span></p><p class="ecxMsoNormal"><b><u><span style="font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"">The questions he offered were something like: (He qualified it with, "I am not certain how to get it down to one question, but let's talk about it.)</span></u></b></p><p class="ecxMsoNormal"> </p><p class="ecxMsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"">Morale and vision:</span></p><p class="ecxMsoNormal" style="text-indent:-.25in"><span style="font-family:Symbol">·</span> <span style="font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"">How do we let go of the hurts of the past?</span><span style="font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif""></span></p><p class="ecxMsoNormal" style="text-indent:-.25in"><span style="font-family:Symbol">·</span> <span style="font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"">Where are we going?</span><span style="font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif""></span></p><p class="ecxMsoNormal" style="text-indent:-.25in"><span style="font-family:Symbol">·</span> <span style="font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"">What can we expect in the future?</span><span style="font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif""></span></p><p class="ecxMsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"Arial","sans-serif""> </span></p><p class="ecxMsoNormal"><b>What question do you hear or comes to your mind from these that might help invite and create space for this conversation? (The way the previous questions are framed, to me, they feel like they are pointing in the wrong direction.)</b></p><p class="ecxMsoNormal"> </p><p class="ecxMsoNormal"> </p><p class="ecxMsoNormal"><b> Would the following question be to broad?</b></p><p class="ecxMsoNormal"> </p><p class="ecxMsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"">Morale and vision:</span></p><p class="ecxMsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"">To move into your future in a positive way, what conversations will be most helpful to you?</span></p><p class="ecxMsoNormal"> </p><p class="ecxMsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"">Thanks,</span></p><p class="ecxMsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"">Craig</span></p><p class="ecxMsoNormal"> </p><p class="ecxMsoNormal"> </p><p class="ecxMsoNormal"><span style="font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif""> </span></p><div><p class="ecxMsoNormal"><span style="font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif""> </span></p></div></div></div><br>_______________________________________________
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