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and Tova: thanks much for all your warm messages and support. It's a privilege
for me to have the opportunity to spread my message to you and all those who
care about the future of the peoples here or any people who live under
conflict. I truly feel touched by the powerful feedbacks and readiness to start
acting and making a difference on the ground.</span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"></span></font></font></p>
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thanks to Harrison, Tova and Avner who showed me the way it works 10 years ago.
I found it to be one of the most powerful and insightful tools I ever used to
facilitate meaningful dialogues, to plan activities and to engage in deep work
processes among the conflicting groups. I don't write usually to the group to
inform them about the OS work here but be sure that OS is very popular now
among the many many groups and organizations I work with. In my TEDx talk I
spoke briefly about working with these groups but my main focus in was on to
show the way how people can move from talking to acting by brining live
examples from Israelis and Palestinians I work with. I focused on bringing
their experiences of crossing the emotional and physical borders which often
humans put to protect themselves from the other. I have brought my personal
story of crossing borders and knowing all the "other" who is
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have contributed tremendously in my work with conflict groups, towards more
understanding and trusting the "other", to move from dialoguing <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>to the acting even in the most unknown and
unfamiliar situations, it helped me to support the activists part in each one
of the participants of these groups. There are many examples and stories that I
wish to write to you but for now I would like to thank you all for the years of
practice, of sharing your wisdom with me and for making a difference. Thank
you!</span></p><p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;" class="MsoNormal"><font face="Times New Roman">
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<div>On Wed, Nov 9, 2011 at 6:03 AM, Tova Averbuch <span dir="ltr"><<a href="mailto:tova.averbuch@gmail.com" target="_blank">tova.averbuch@gmail.com</a>></span> wrote:<br></div>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="color: rgb(31, 73, 125); font-size: 14pt;">Dearest Christy, a beloved poet of life,<u></u><u></u></span></b></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="color: rgb(0, 51, 0);">Thank you, Carol and Tova, for sharing your work and what you are learning, and for your beautiful differences which embody such deep likeness…<u></u><u></u></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="color: rgb(79, 129, 189);"><u></u> <u></u></span></b></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="color: rgb(0, 51, 0);">"a difference that embodies a likeness".</span><u></u><u></u></p></div>
<p class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="color: rgb(79, 129, 189);">This is one name for “hope” for me.<u></u><u></u></span></b></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="color: rgb(79, 129, 189);">Thank you so very much for creating beauty by capturing it<u></u><u></u></span></b></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="color: rgb(79, 129, 189);"><u></u> <u></u></span></b></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="color: rgb(79, 129, 189);">And for reminding a tipping Point in my personal life in POP gathering on Whidbey Island 2003<u></u><u></u></span></b></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Gratefully <u></u><u></u></p>
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<p style="text-align: right;" class="MsoNormal" align="right"><b><span style="color: rgb(128, 100, 162);" dir="rtl" lang="HE">בברכה,</span></b><b><span style="color: rgb(128, 100, 162);"><u></u><u></u></span></b></p>
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<p style="text-align: right;" class="MsoNormal" align="right"><b><span style="color: rgb(128, 100, 162);" dir="rtl" lang="HE">טובה<u></u><u></u></span></b></p>
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<p style="text-align: center;" class="MsoNormal" align="center"><b><span style="color: rgb(128, 100, 162);">Tova Averbuch </span></b><span dir="rtl"></span><b><span style="color: rgb(128, 100, 162);" dir="rtl" lang="HE"><span dir="rtl"></span> טובה אורבוך</span></b><b><span style="color: rgb(128, 100, 162);"><u></u><u></u></span></b></p>
<p style="text-align: center;" class="MsoNormal" align="center"><b><span style="color: rgb(128, 100, 162); font-size: 10pt;" dir="rtl" lang="HE">יועצת בכירה לפיתוח ארגוני</span></b><b><span style="color: rgb(128, 100, 162); font-size: 10pt;"><u></u><u></u></span></b></p>
<p style="text-align: center;" class="MsoNormal" align="center"><b><span style="color: rgb(31, 73, 125); font-size: 9pt;"><a href="http://tova.averbuch@gmail.com" target="_blank"><span style="color: blue;">tova.averbuch@gmail.com</span></a><u></u><u></u></span></b></p>
<p style="text-align: center;" class="MsoNormal" align="center"><b><span style="color: rgb(128, 100, 162); font-size: 9pt;">972-3-5523476<u></u><u></u></span></b></p>
<p style="text-align: center;" class="MsoNormal" align="center"><b><span style="color: rgb(128, 100, 162); font-size: 9pt;">972-52-8305343<u></u><u></u></span></b></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="font-size: 10pt;">From:</span></b><span style="font-size: 10pt;"> <a href="mailto:oslist-bounces@lists.openspacetech.org" target="_blank">oslist-bounces@lists.openspacetech.org</a> [mailto:<a href="mailto:oslist-bounces@lists.openspacetech.org" target="_blank">oslist-bounces@lists.openspacetech.org</a>] <b>On Behalf Of </b>Christy Lee-Engel<br>
<b>Sent:</b> Wednesday, November 09, 2011 12:53 AM
</span><div><br><b>To:</b> World wide Open Space Technology email list<br></div><b>Cc:</b> Rabbi Ted Falcon<br><b>Subject:</b> Re: [OSList] Crossing borders -- Coming to the circle -- Update<u></u><u></u>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="color: rgb(0, 51, 0);">I have just watched Tova's and Carol's very moving, very eloquent, spirited talks back to back (that is: side by side? face to face?) and could feel as if I were there in Jaffa. </span><u></u><u></u></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="color: rgb(0, 51, 0);">I think about the good luck of meeting Tova and Carol and their colleague Avner in 2003, when the three of them came with other colleagues from around the world to participate in the Practice of Peace here, to share powerful, difficult, stories about opening space in areas of conflict. </span><u></u><u></u></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="color: rgb(0, 51, 0);">Compared to then, the work is still very challenging, with no guarantee of anything, but now it seems like the long and devoted effort of opening the space in very hard, rocky, closed-up places has contributed to liberating a lot of fertility and creativity and aliveness (1000 tables of conversation in Tel Aviv and all over Israel! Israelis and Palestinians visiting each others' homes, let alone their towns!)</span><u></u><u></u></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="color: rgb(0, 51, 0);">And I am struck by the fact that Tova and Carol are both so eloquent and poetic in English, which is not either of their first languages - their fluency is an embodied aspect of the theme of this TEDxJaffa, "Desire To Know the Other" - the willingness to do the work necessary to speak the language of another embodies the desire to know the other. Last week, Seattle Arts and Lectures presented an evening with three translators of poetry. One of them, Peter Cole, is an American who translates Arabic and Hebrew poetry into English, and he said that a good translation of a poem, which can seem impossible, is "a difference that embodies a likeness".</span><u></u><u></u></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="color: rgb(0, 51, 0);"><br clear="all"></span><span style="color: rgb(0, 51, 0);">Christy Lee-Engel, ND, LAc<br><i>Please visit my new private practice location, <a href="http://corechiropracticseattle.com/" target="_blank">Core Chiropractic and Wellness</a></i></span><span style="color: rgb(0, 51, 0);"><u></u><u></u></span></p>
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<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><i><span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153); font-family: "Garamond", "serif"; font-size: 10pt;">Matter is spirit moving slowly enough to be seen. - Pierre Teilhard de Chardin</span><span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);"><u></u><u></u></span></i></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">On Sun, Nov 6, 2011 at 5:20 AM, Harrison Owen <<a href="mailto:hhowen@verizon.net" target="_blank">hhowen@verizon.net</a>> wrote:<u></u><u></u></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="color: rgb(31, 73, 125);">Turns out I was right – Carol was speaking at the same conference with Tova. It also turns out, Tova tells me, that Carol had been asked to organize the conference and invited Tova. Wheels within wheels – or something. If you haven’t listened to Carol’s talk, I urge you to do so. There is absolutely no mention of Open Space Technology – but her language is familiar, and straight from the Open Space experience that I know she has had. For me this is wonderful – and if nothing else – a demonstration of the 5<sup>th</sup> Principle at work. “Wherever it happens is the right place.” Over the last 10 years Carol has been opening space all over the Middle East, sometimes in the form that we would all recognize as OST, and doubtless more times where that is not the case, but space was opened for different and differing people. They were invited to come to the circle if they cared to come -- no questions asked. Those aren’t quite Carol’s words, but close and I love them.</span><u></u><u></u></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="color: rgb(31, 73, 125);">Many years ago, somebody asked me what my vision for OST might be. I said I hoped it might just disappear as a special thing because it had become such a part of our lives that it needed no special name. It was just what we did. </span><u></u><u></u></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="color: rgb(31, 73, 125);">Harrison Owen</span><u></u><u></u></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="font-size: 10pt;">From:</span></b><span style="font-size: 10pt;"> <a href="mailto:oslist-bounces@lists.openspacetech.org" target="_blank">oslist-bounces@lists.openspacetech.org</a> [mailto:<a href="mailto:oslist-bounces@lists.openspacetech.org" target="_blank">oslist-bounces@lists.openspacetech.org</a>] <b>On Behalf Of </b>Harrison Owen<br>
<b>Sent:</b> Thursday, November 03, 2011 3:38 PM<br><b>To:</b> 'World wide Open Space Technology email list'<br><b>Subject:</b> [OSList] Crossing borders -- Coming to the circle</span><u></u><u></u></p></div></div>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Carol Kasbari is a Palestinian, an old friend and “Open Spacer.” I first met her in Israel while doing a program with Tova. Carol was very young and afraid. The 2<sup>nd</sup> Infatada had broken out and a suicide bombing had just occurred in the city and as we did our program at a mountain retreat overlooking the road to Jerusalem. We could see the ambulances moving along. Suddenly Carol’s phone rang. It was her husband, Osama, and he was right in the middle of things. You could feel Carol’s terror. Our program went on. Mostly Open Space. At the end Carol came to me with the most elegant thank you I think I have ever received. She said, “You have reborned my hope.” Since that time, Carol has been doing many things including opening space for many people. Her TED talk (at the same conference Tova spoke to, I think) is powerful, to say the least. Once again she brought tears to my eyes (seems to happen a lot) – and it is clear that her hope is alive and well. Listen for yourself.<u></u><u></u></p>
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