Hello Tree<div>I have never agreed and disagreed more strongly with the same thought before. It took me some time to sit with your ideas as I unpacked my own reaction to your statements. I do not believe I misunderstand your beliefs about how you think childhoods should be protected and sheltered and I don't disagree with you in theory. They should be protected and sheltered. There is no going back to stolen childhoods and childhood can be stolen. I do think childhoods can be stolen under the guise of protection and shelter. </div>
<div> I do think there are developmental stages and that it's important for us to go through all those stages as we grow because we will use those stages as scaffolding as we become ourselves. Having said that I also believe that we all come to be with a different set of tools and brilliant abilities. Those unique qualities of self allow us to move through different developmental stages with different abilities and different times. Here is where I take exception with what you are proposing and Waldorf for that matter. Each brings our own time to the equation. Some are ready to take on experiences interacting with adults and their world in very competent ways at very young ages. In fact, they need to have those experiences to find the self they came to be. I know for myself I was already organizing anti-war events by the time I was 11. No one expected, pushed or even encouraged me to this. I felt compelled by what I saw in the world and a deep need to change it. I am grateful that as difficult as it was for my parents to allow me to do these things because they kept me on the path to myself. My daughter was crying about flowers picked that didn't want to be picked by the time she was 2, raising money for pre-schools in Central America by the time she was 7 and comfortably reading essays she wrote to political demonstration with crowds of 50,000 people by the time she was 11. My son on the other hand is 22 and still not ready to navigate the world as an adult. He needs more time. The issue for me is not whether I think a young person should participate in certain venues normally occupied by adults. The issue is where the children are driven to go. What do the children think? Are they there because their own heart has passion and commitment or are they there because someone else thinks that is where they should be? Childhood should be protected and sheltered. I agree with that. I also think it needs to be driven by the child's passion and commitment not the adults sense of what is appropriate for a child. I am thinking about the recent hoopla about the 16 year old girl who wanted to sail around the world and all the talk about child abuse. There was a time when she was out of radio contact and all the world was a twitter about what happened to her because the loss of contact came after a bad storm in the Pacific where she was. After some days they found the boat and team rescued her. Her mast broke in the storm and with that her satellite communications were down. The questioners went on and on to her about her safety and whether she was alright and whether she should be out in a boat sailing by herself and her reply was "It was just a storm". This child can only become herself through the sea and if you deny her the sea you deny her herself.</div>
<div><div>I am just saying it is for the child to chose the direction and the speed and the adults to do what they can to facility the possibility.</div><div>Pat Black<br><br><div class="gmail_quote">On Sat, Oct 9, 2010 at 8:11 AM, Tree Fitzpatrick <span dir="ltr"><<a href="mailto:therese.fitzpatrick@gmail.com">therese.fitzpatrick@gmail.com</a>></span> wrote:<br>
<blockquote class="gmail_quote" style="margin:0 0 0 .8ex;border-left:1px #ccc solid;padding-left:1ex;">Michael, and other comments. .. I don't think anyone commenting actually understood what I tried to say so I conclude that I failed to communicate.<br>
<br>Young humans are not yet fully evolved humans. What all young people need, including the most precocious of them, including ones that get asked to sit on the board of the Jane Goodall Institute, is to be children. It is only by being children than humans can become fully realized adults.<br>
<br>The world needs fully realized adults to achieve our shared, highest destiny. When we push children out of childhood and into the adult realm, those people rarely, if ever, get space later in life to go back and fill in the gaps of what was missing.<br>
<br>Michael, yes, indeed, children can bring a lovely element to any open space. . . but that does not mean that it is right. Children should not be asked to participate in adult matters. Ever.<br><br>The damage contemporary society does to childhood is a very serious, long-term consequence to humanity. If we do not keep children asleep in childhood so they might do the inner work of their inner beings, we will have a human future full of unrealized 'grown ups'. It is casual, nonsensical folly to bring children -- unformed adults -- into adult discussions. It is wrong on a gagillion levels.<br>
<br>We are all so caught up in rushing towards the future. One thing we humans cannot 'rush' is the slow development and incubation of fully realized human beings: that development takes place in childhood. It is irrationally folly to bring children into adult decisions.<div>
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<br><div class="gmail_quote">On Fri, Oct 8, 2010 at 3:06 AM, Michael M Pannwitz <span dir="ltr"><<a href="mailto:mmpanne@boscop.org" target="_blank">mmpanne@boscop.org</a>></span> wrote:<br><blockquote class="gmail_quote" style="border-left:1px solid rgb(204, 204, 204);margin:0pt 0pt 0pt 0.8ex;padding-left:1ex">
Dear Tree,<br>
from where I sit (public) decision making as presently practiced, for instance in Germany, is ineffective, creates larger problems, is lobby-infested, dogmatic, expensive, not even a good show... who would want to be part of that?<br>
What I have experienced often in "formal" open space events and in the "normal" open space of everyday life (like the 1,5 year old daughter of a neighbor visiting and taking over our household, very effectively involving us in her life and experiments, curious, decisions?-easy for her....pure joy)is that kids of all ages thrive in it.<br>
But then, thats not decision making in the sense of sitting on a "board" of whatsoever.<br>
Day-care children, grade school kids, highschool kids, teenagers... are the greatest gift to an open space event, so I encourage their taking part and it seems to always have been productive, fun, healthy...<br>
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Have a great day<br>
Greetings from Berlin<br>
mmp<br>
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Tree Fitzpatrick schrieb:<br>
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There are many things off kilter in human culture. One thing that I think is<br>
off kilter is that adult humans now routinely encourage non-adult humans to<br>
participate in things like 'public decision making'. Where did we get the<br>
assumption that a young person has the capacity of a fully evolved adult<br>
human to make informed decisions that might have long term consequences on<br>
the child, other children, the community, the culture, etc? Children are not<br>
yet adult.<br>
<br>
We encourage children to 'awaken' to adulthood far too early.<br>
<br>
I am appalled that many now take it for granted that children (a non-adult<br>
is still a child) should sit on something like the Board of Directors of<br>
something like the Jane Goddall Institute (whatever that is, I imagine<br>
Ashley meant Jane Goddall).<br>
<br>
This is a major flaw, I think, in evolving culture and it has endlessly<br>
complex repercussions.<br>
<br>
Children's job is to be children, to developo their own personhood fully so<br>
that they will one day take a place in adult community. Children awaken to<br>
adult considerations much too early. TElevision has been a huge culprit in<br>
this regard and now, of course, the internet.<br>
<br>
A child's main work is being a child. It's just not right to cavalierly get<br>
youth input into decisioins that children cannot, just cannot, really know.<br>
A twelve year old, a sixteen year old, is not mature enough to make complex<br>
public decisions and it is wrong to ask them to: asking children to<br>
participate in grown up life as peers with the adults dishonors children<br>
<br>
I get my main attitudes about children from having sent my child to a<br>
Waldorf School and having been a student of Rudolf STeiner for over twenty<br>
years. Much of what is wrong with human culture can be traced to the<br>
practice of stunting youthful inner development under the guise of awakening<br>
children too early to adult concerns. This is why we now have an education<br>
system in USA that is focussed on test scores instead of the inner<br>
development of children. There is a story in today's NYTImes about how<br>
publishers are publishing less picture books and how parents pressure four<br>
years olds to listen to long stories and skip picture books so they will<br>
have better test scores later. . . this dynamic is connected to including<br>
youth in public decisinmaking.<br>
<br>
I know this is a very popular trend and I know Ashely Cooper is deeply<br>
invested in the world and I know she is a good caring person intent on<br>
making positive contributions in the world.<br>
<br>
I get to have my opinion, yes? I am worried about the millions of humans<br>
who are children today who are not cloud-gazing and spending their summers<br>
hunting rocks and birds' nests and who are told, when they are twelve, that<br>
they can contribute to public decisions. Grown up humans have a duty to<br>
children: to let them be children. Otherwise what we are creating is an<br>
army of humans who are not fully developed humans who will make good wage<br>
slaves for the elite billionaires running the tea part movement. Thinking<br>
caring loving people should not participate in pushing children into the<br>
adult arena while children.<br>
<br>
On Thu, Oct 7, 2010 at 6:51 PM, ashley cooper<br>
<<a href="mailto:mail.easilyamazed@gmail.com" target="_blank">mail.easilyamazed@gmail.com</a>>wrote:<br>
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Hello Open Space friends,<br>
<br>
I have fallen off of the OSlist for awhile, but I wanted to share with you<br></div></div>
a talk from a recent TEDx event that I hosted, TEDxNextGenerationAsheville<<a href="http://www.tedxnextgenerationasheville.com/" target="_blank">http://www.tedxnextgenerationasheville.com/</a>>.<div><br>
This event was all about spotlighting the ideas of young people and giving<br>
them a public stage from which to share and be heard. It was also an<br>
invitation for there to be more collaboration between youth and adults.<br>
Chase Pickering spoke about the role of youth in leadership and how young<br>
people can contribute to public decision-making and serve on Board of<br>
Directors (which he did with the Jane Goddall Institute). If you are in a<br>
position to invite a youth to serve on your board of directors or advisory<br>
board or encourage the clients you work with, please consider Chase's<br>
advice!<br>
<br>
<a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=27IJpZVP1qs" target="_blank">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=27IJpZVP1qs</a><br>
<br>
You can also watch Birke Baehr's talk about the food we eat. He is an 11<br>
year old who is passionate about food and whose talk has gone viral and been<br>
viewed over 200,000 times in less than 2 weeks.<br>
<a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F7Id9caYw-Y" target="_blank">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F7Id9caYw-Y</a><br>
<br>
Sending fondest regards from Asheville, NC, USA,<br>
Ashley<br>
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P.s. If you would like to respond to me personally, please send it to<br>
<a href="mailto:easilyamazed@gmail.com" target="_blank">easilyamazed@gmail.com</a> . I have not been checking this account regularly.<br>
Thank you.<br>
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