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<p class=MsoNormal><font size=2 face=Arial><span style='font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:Arial'>Dear friends<o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
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font-family:Arial'><o:p> </o:p></span></font></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><font size=2 face=Arial><span lang=EN-GB style='font-size:
10.0pt;font-family:Arial'>Just to point out one very interesting thing that
happened in our Wave Rider Open Space in <st1:State w:st="on"><st1:place w:st="on">Berlin</st1:place></st1:State>
yesterday (final day): Jo Toepfer proposed a workshop on “how to make the
8 steps work for me”. We had, amongst other things, a fabulous discussion
on opening space for ourselves as persons, treating ourselves to our own
facilitation as we treat the clients’ systems to it. This is what that
could be like:<o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
<p class=MsoNormal style='margin-left:36.0pt;text-indent:-18.0pt;mso-list:l0 level1 lfo1'><![if !supportLists]><font
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</span></font></span></span></font><![endif]><font size=2 face=Arial><span
lang=EN-GB style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Arial'>Do my personal homework (i.e.
be clear about what I want in life, or today) <o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
<p class=MsoNormal style='margin-left:36.0pt;text-indent:-18.0pt;mso-list:l0 level1 lfo1'><![if !supportLists]><font
size=2 face=Arial><span lang=EN-GB style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Arial'><span
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</span></font></span></span></font><![endif]><font size=2 face=Arial><span
lang=EN-GB style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Arial'>Invite myself to be
present and open to find out whether I want to come to this “event”
today <o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
<p class=MsoNormal style='margin-left:36.0pt;text-indent:-18.0pt;mso-list:l0 level1 lfo1'><![if !supportLists]><font
size=2 face=Arial><span lang=EN-GB style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Arial'><span
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</span></font></span></span></font><![endif]><font size=2 face=Arial><span
lang=EN-GB style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Arial'>Sit in a circle with all
the characters within myself, and they are all equally important, the inner
child who wants to play just like the demanding critic, the scientist, the one
who sits in stillness etc.<o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
<p class=MsoNormal style='margin-left:36.0pt;text-indent:-18.0pt;mso-list:l0 level1 lfo1'><![if !supportLists]><font
size=2 face=Arial><span lang=EN-GB style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Arial'><span
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</span></font></span></span></font><![endif]><font size=2 face=Arial><span
lang=EN-GB style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Arial'>I listen to the rules,
the law, am prepared to be surprised and aware that I can also be a butterfly
or a bumble-bee – follow my own energy carefully<o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
<p class=MsoNormal style='margin-left:36.0pt;text-indent:-18.0pt;mso-list:l0 level1 lfo1'><![if !supportLists]><font
size=2 face=Arial><span lang=EN-GB style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Arial'><span
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</span></font></span></span></font><![endif]><font size=2 face=Arial><span
lang=EN-GB style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Arial'>I invite the topics of
the day to be posted (what are the things I have passion and responsibility for
today? E.g. “I invite myself to write the bills today”)<o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
<p class=MsoNormal style='margin-left:36.0pt;text-indent:-18.0pt;mso-list:l0 level1 lfo1'><![if !supportLists]><font
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</span></font></span></span></font><![endif]><font size=2 face=Arial><span
lang=EN-GB style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Arial'>Hold the market place (which
topics am I signing up for now?) and get to work<o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
<p class=MsoNormal style='margin-left:36.0pt;text-indent:-18.0pt;mso-list:l0 level1 lfo1'><![if !supportLists]><font
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</span></font></span></span></font><![endif]><font size=2 face=Arial><span
lang=EN-GB style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Arial'>Keep Grief working (what
do I need to acknowledge as being over? How can I do that best?)<o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
<p class=MsoNormal style='margin-left:36.0pt;text-indent:-18.0pt;mso-list:l0 level1 lfo1'><![if !supportLists]><font
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</span></font></span></span></font><![endif]><font size=2 face=Arial><span
lang=EN-GB style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Arial'>Formalize the system
(what are the minimum structures needed for myself so I can work well?)<o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><font size=2 face=Arial><span lang=EN-GB style='font-size:
10.0pt;font-family:Arial'><o:p> </o:p></span></font></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><font size=2 face=Arial><span lang=EN-GB style='font-size:
10.0pt;font-family:Arial'>Yesterday, during the action planning session we held
in one group, I found the sentence “I allow myself to live the life I
dream of”. And then today on my way home from <st1:place w:st="on"><st1:State
w:st="on">Berlin</st1:State></st1:place> in the train, I came up with a slight
variation: “I invite myself to live the life I dream of”, as a
topic for one of the next days’ diary work. <o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
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10.0pt;font-family:Arial'><o:p> </o:p></span></font></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><font size=2 face=Arial><span lang=EN-GB style='font-size:
10.0pt;font-family:Arial'>So it truly feels as if the larger part of my
personal grief work about the death of my daughters is done and I’m slowly
getting ready to start a new period in my life. This is wonderful. Thank you
all, you have all been an important part in this journey, ever since 1989!<o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
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10.0pt;font-family:Arial'>With love, C.</span></font><span lang=EN-GB><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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