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style='font-size:12.0pt'>“I wonder how empowering it is for the
individual left behind?”<br>
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12.0pt;font-family:Arial;color:red'>Well, if that “difficult”
person was a command and control boss – it is possible, though perhaps
not likely, that he will learn something. Then again, he might go and seek
alternative employment. Or – all those folks he was intimidating might do
the same thing. Sometimes the universe has to hit you on the side of the head
with a 2X4 just to get your attention. Painful, but effective.</span></font></p>
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face=Tahoma><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Tahoma;color:windowtext'>-----Original
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<b><span style='font-weight:bold'>From:</span></b> OSLIST
[mailto:OSLIST@LISTSERV.BOISESTATE.EDU] <b><span style='font-weight:bold'>On
Behalf Of </span></b>Bui K. Petersen<br>
<b><span style='font-weight:bold'>Sent:</span></b> Thursday, February 15, 2007
2:31 PM<br>
<b><span style='font-weight:bold'>To:</span></b> OSLIST@LISTSERV.BOISESTATE.EDU<br>
<b><span style='font-weight:bold'>Subject:</span></b> Re: Law of Two Feet</span></font></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal style='margin-left:.5in'><font size=3 color=black
face="Times New Roman"><span style='font-size:12.0pt'>Thanks for the
reassurance, Jack.<br>
<br>
However, I am not as concerned about the to the topic and the conversation as I
am with the affect on the "difficult" individual. While it may be
empowering for people to simply leave an unfruitful conversation, I wonder how
empowering it is for the individual left behind?<br>
<br>
Búi<br>
<br>
Jack Ricchiuto wrote: </span></font></p>
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.5in'><font size=3 color=black face="Times New Roman"><span style='font-size:
12.0pt'>Bui,<br>
<br>
This does happen and can hurt the development of content around an otherwise
attractive topic. If the self-organizing soil of the group is fertile enough,
people will continue the conversation in different places and in different
ways, the way water will flow around rocks to whatever openings available. When
people with passion are given freedom, good things happen no matter what. <br>
<br>
Translation: not to worry.<br>
<br>
Be well,<br>
<br>
Jack</span></font></p>
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size=3 color=black face="Times New Roman"><span style='font-size:12.0pt'>On
2/15/07, <b><span style='font-weight:bold'>Bui K. Petersen</span></b> <<a
href="mailto:bui@buildconsensus.ca">bui@buildconsensus.ca </a>> wrote:</span></font></span>
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<p class=MsoNormal style='margin-right:0in;margin-bottom:12.0pt;margin-left:
.5in'><font size=3 color=black face="Times New Roman"><span style='font-size:
12.0pt'>As someone who is still just learning and trying to find out how and
when OST can be used, I am curious about people's experience with the effect
the Law of Two Feet can have on irritating dominating personalities. Say for
example that someone is dominating a group and practically annoying everyone
else with the result of them using their two feet and leaving. How does this
affect the person left behind? I have some concerns about what could happen to
this person but before I mention them, I am interested to hear what others have
experienced.<br>
<br>
Curious!<br>
<br>
Búi<br>
<br>
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