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<p class=MsoNormal><font size=3 color=red face=Arial><span style='font-size:
12.0pt;font-family:Arial;color:red'>I sort of thought that was what you meant
(explanation). I can understand why you did that – and I try very hard to
answer few if any questions. There are several reasons. The first is just
practical. The more time you spend answering questions, the less time folks
have with the really good stuff (what they came to talk about). Also I find
that in most cases (all cases?) the questioners are simply trying to deal with
their anxiety. At the extreme you can find yourself in a situation where
somebody is questioning the theoretical basis for OS. If that happens, you
might as well give up and turn the morning over to a theoretical discussion. Now
you might think that reducing anxiety levels is a good thing (feeling
comfortable) – but actually I find that a good sense of anxiety/adventure
is really a positive. Adds some extra “oomph” to the start. The third
reason I never answer questions is that I “know” that most people
will forget the answers </span></font><font color=red face=Arial><span
 style='font-family:Arial;color:red'>AND</span></font><font color=red
face=Arial><span style='font-family:Arial;color:red'> they will figure it out
by themselves anyhow.</span></font></p>

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<p class=MsoNormal><font size=3 color=red face=Arial><span style='font-size:
12.0pt;font-family:Arial;color:red'>This last point is really important for me.
When a group understands that the meeting is really their own, and that they
are responsible the “empowerment quotient” goes up by many degrees.
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<p class=MsoNormal style='margin-left:.5in'><font size=2 face=Tahoma><span
style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Tahoma'>-----Original Message-----<br>
<b><span style='font-weight:bold'>From:</span></b> OSLIST
[mailto:OSLIST@LISTSERV.BOISESTATE.EDU] <b><span style='font-weight:bold'>On
Behalf Of </span></b>Funda Oral<br>
<b><span style='font-weight:bold'>Sent:</span></b> Wednesday, May 31, 2006 8:35
AM<br>
<b><span style='font-weight:bold'>To:</span></b> OSLIST@LISTSERV.BOISESTATE.EDU<br>
<b><span style='font-weight:bold'>Subject:</span></b> Re: my second space in
istanbul</span></font></p>

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<p class=MsoNormal style='margin-left:.5in'><font size=2 face=Arial><span
style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Arial'>thank you all  - harrison,
gail, juan luis, marina, raffi.....and everbody-  who follow my adventure
with ost.</span></font></p>

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<p class=MsoNormal style='margin-left:.5in'><font size=2 face=Arial><span
style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Arial'>dear harrison and esther,</span></font></p>

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<p class=MsoNormal style='margin-left:.5in'><font size=2 face=Arial><span
style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Arial'>when i say less ritual and more
explanation i mean</span></font></p>

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<p class=MsoNormal style='margin-left:.5in'><font size=2 face=Arial><span
style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Arial'>less words for principles and
law more explanation on technical-simple information</span></font></p>

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<p class=MsoNormal style='margin-left:.5in'><font size=2 face=Arial><span
style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Arial'>such as; where to go for group
meetings, what the convener should do, who shd write the</span></font></p>

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<p class=MsoNormal style='margin-left:.5in'><font size=2 face=Arial><span
style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Arial'>report, what do we do with the
report, what is a session etc.</span></font></p>

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<p class=MsoNormal style='margin-left:.5in'><font size=2 face=Arial><span
style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Arial'>i tried to answer  shortly all
the questions regarding the practice without taking their space.</span></font></p>

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<p class=MsoNormal style='margin-left:.5in'><font size=2 face=Arial><span
style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Arial'>i felt that i had to do that for the
participants to feel comfortable and secure with the method.  </span></font></p>

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<p class=MsoNormal style='margin-left:.5in'><font size=2 face=Arial><span
style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Arial'>few times i had to say
 "pls stop asking questions, let's live,..."</span></font></p>

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style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Arial'>.....</span></font></p>

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<p class=MsoNormal style='margin-left:.5in'><font size=2 face=Arial><span
style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Arial'>funda</span></font></p>

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