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<DIV><FONT face=Arial>I have learned a lot from this discussion. Thanks to
everybody who commented.</FONT></DIV>
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<DIV><FONT face=Arial>In daily life, being with others and witnessing their
discussion, their interaction </FONT><FONT face=Arial>I realized that i can
not judge and </FONT></DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial>determine the power differential
correctly. </FONT><FONT face=Arial>I observe that the balance changes all
the time. People are used to living </FONT></DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial>and interacting like that. Maybe, they are </FONT><FONT
face=Arial>comfortable and/or they enjoy playing power games.</FONT></DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial></FONT> </DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial>I think i have to "respect" the way they choose
to live, to be with each other.</FONT></DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial></FONT> </DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial>If it's clear for me that this is not my issue (forever
or at that time), i prefer staying out of it, don't want to spend energy on
that , don't want to</FONT></DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial>change anything...in this case sometimes i use my 2
feets. Sometimes it's not nice to walk away like that, then i stay
there</FONT></DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial>my mind goes to somewhere else.</FONT></DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial></FONT> </DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial>It makes me feel very good that i have this kind of
freedom. Should be the same in OST.</FONT></DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial></FONT> </DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial>Funda</FONT></DIV>
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