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individuals who won't even consider anything but sucking the energy out of<BR>
other individuals for their own gain??<BR>
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Judy,<BR>
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Peter Block advises that we 'name the behavior' to the person, so they can hear how others are perceiving or feeling it. You may find that quite effective. It is especially effective for the person who is always judging the worth, goodness or badness of something. Just name it.<BR>
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Sincerely,<BR>
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Paul<BR>
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