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<P><FONT face="Courier New" size=2>Dear Lucas,</FONT></P>
<P><FONT face="Courier New" size=2>you seem to be on an interesting track. Don't
have time right now to get deeper in it.<BR>Probably it's somehow related with
using the power of agression (because there is strength in it) to build
something instead of destroying sth (even though sometimes something has to be
destroyed to get enough space for building sth new.)</FONT></P>
<P><FONT face="Courier New" size=2>What about taking the negative label from
"agression"? What about seeing the feeling itself as okay and only looking at
what do I do with it?</FONT></P>
<P><FONT face="Courier New" size=2>As a (as I assume) typical female habit I
have tried to live my life without agression for years and years. Every time I
felt agression I would immediately punish myself and change into depression mode
instead (unconsciously, of course; the punishing myself I did to
avoid punishment from my surrounding, as I remember this is called
"internalize" in psychology = unconsciously doing to oneself what
earlier parents or society have done). Now I know that I have cut off acess to
big part of my creative power by censoring myself the way I did.</FONT></P>
<P><FONT face="Courier New" size=2>I would love to hear "positive" examples from
this list of results that where reached with the power of agression.</FONT></P>
<P><FONT face="Courier New" size=2>Marei</FONT></P>
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<P><FONT face="Courier New"><FONT
size=2> "Lucas Gonzalez" <</FONT></FONT><A href="mailto:lgs0a@yahoo.es>" ><FONT face="Courier New"
size=2>mailto:lgs0a@yahoo.es></FONT></a><FONT face="Courier New"
size=2> schrieb:<BR></FONT><FONT face="Courier New"
size=2>...<BR>> I don't know if the idea is clear, as I myself am only starting to "get<BR>> it".<BR>> <BR>> So, what about agression and jokes? Could it be that our toxic<BR>> agressive energy is better used as a resource ... to be used somewhere<BR>> else and not within the same place where it was generated? Could it be<BR>> that, whenever we sense agression, we should look around to see if have<BR>> not really invited the whole system into the same room, and we should<BR>> widen things a bit? Maybe gender-related agressiveness is not gender<BR>> related at all?<BR>> <BR>> Does this make any sense? Does it take us anywhere? You all know<BR>> more.<BR>> <BR>> Lucas<BR></P></FONT></BODY></HTML>
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