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<FONT FACE="Arial">Am 28.11.2004 13:27 Uhr schrieb "Harrison Owen" unter <hhowen@comcast.net>:<BR>
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<FONT COLOR="#000098">> Jack wrote: .....If they<BR>
> express interest in the power, my role is to then to help them discover just<BR>
> that. I become their trusted guide in a new land."<BR>
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> Harrison wrote: Jack I think you got it right on the head. Better yet you > > have pushed the discussion in a fruitful new direction. So what do you think? ><B> How do you help these strangers in a new land?</B> What do others think? Any stories?<BR>
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thank you for the question, harrison.<BR>
this brings us to the role which may be called normally as »coaching«.<BR>
in my experience it is as well facilitating to expanding the now,<BR>
opening to some one the already happening, helping someone to realize that the decisions which seem a must be done, perhaps hidden but actually are already done and passed, therefor the need is only to realize / to agree /to follow --- the flow. I think, there is no »new land«, but there is only a new sight on the land, better »around« the land, realizing that we are always inmidst<BR>
»the land«, part of the land. beside that the land we are realizing exist only in our perception (the concept of new constructivism: percept language).<BR>
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about the question how to help someone who has got the feeling to become strange:<BR>
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I tell him and her to forget all about vision -- to look instead of that round to the immediate present --<BR>
and only to the just following step of the way— because every next step has all his reasons to be going already done in the past. no step is towards something, but every step follows the next one. so, I tell, give thanks to the past, give honor to the past — and give farewell to the past, giving welcome just only to the next step --- not in favour of an end, but in favour of the flow --- the flow of very tiny little steps — which will produce a very unexpected line at the end --- if there will ever be an end.<BR>
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