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<DIV><FONT face="Arial Cyr" size=2>Thanks much for the thoughtful
answers!</FONT></DIV>
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<DIV><FONT size=2>My most valuable learnings here:</FONT></DIV>
<DIV><FONT size=2>1. Is my own inner space open to work with the
client?</FONT></DIV>
<DIV><FONT size=2></FONT> </DIV>
<DIV><FONT size=2>2. The importance of coming with an open mind and seeing what
happens to my inner space as I interact with the client. Maybe indeed
something'll shift.</FONT></DIV>
<DIV><FONT size=2></FONT> </DIV>
<DIV><FONT size=2>3. That maybe I am obligated to bring love into an
organization that wants me to do so.</FONT></DIV>
<DIV><FONT size=2></FONT> </DIV>
<DIV><FONT size=2>4. That, when in doubt, sometimes I can make a counter-offer.
Not simply say no, but what can I say "yes" to (the therapist and drug dealer
story)</FONT></DIV>
<DIV><FONT size=2></FONT> </DIV>
<DIV><FONT size=2>5. Having an experience of love and peace may yield
powerful ripples later.</FONT></DIV>
<DIV><FONT size=2></FONT> </DIV>
<DIV><FONT size=2>6. It's all about context. </FONT></DIV>
<DIV><FONT size=2></FONT> </DIV>
<DIV><FONT size=2>And also, by saying "no" to a prospective client, I am closing
the client and myself off from a potential transformation opportunity.
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<DIV><FONT size=2></FONT> </DIV>
<DIV><FONT size=2>Thank you, thank you.</FONT></DIV>
<DIV><FONT size=2>Raffi</FONT></DIV></BODY></HTML>
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