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<p class=MsoNormal><font size=3 face=Arial><span style='font-size:12.0pt;
font-family:Arial'>I have found myself in exactly the situation you describe on
a number of occasions, and the only problem (a real one) is that it is
sometimes difficult to maintain the role of “Space Holder” when the
discussion becomes hot and heavy in an area of particular interest to you. It
is so easy to get sucked in. I found, however, that it is possible to do two
things at the same time IF you remember which one is the most important, at
least most important in terms of your participation in the Open Space. If you
are the facilitator – that is job 1. Frankly I find it easier, more
pleasant and productive to look for an “outsider” to do the
facilitation so that I have complete license to play. However it does work
either way, particularly in a situation where the group has had some prior
experience with Open Space. It seems that the group pretty quickly figures out
how to hold its own space, and then everybody is free to follow their druthers.<o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><font size=3 face=Arial><span style='font-size:12.0pt;
font-family:Arial'><o:p> </o:p></span></font></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><font size=3 face=Arial><span style='font-size:12.0pt;
font-family:Arial'>Harrison<o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
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font-family:Arial'><o:p> </o:p></span></font></p>
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<a href="http://www.openspaceworld.com/" eudora=autourl>www.openspaceworld.com</a>
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<p class=MsoNormal style='margin-left:.5in'><font size=2 face=Tahoma><span
style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Tahoma'>-----Original Message-----<br>
<b><span style='font-weight:bold'>From:</span></b> OSLIST
[mailto:OSLIST@LISTSERV.BOISESTATE.EDU] <b><span style='font-weight:bold'>On
Behalf Of </span></b>Marks & Margaret McAvity<br>
<b><span style='font-weight:bold'>Sent:</span></b> Tuesday, December 30, 2003
10:31 PM<br>
<b><span style='font-weight:bold'>To:</span></b> OSLIST@LISTSERV.BOISESTATE.EDU<br>
<b><span style='font-weight:bold'>Subject:</span></b> FACILITATOR AS
PARTICIPANT</span></font></p>
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style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Arial'>Hi folks;</span></font><o:p></o:p></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal style='margin-left:.5in'><font size=2 face=Arial><span
style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Arial'>And Happy New Year. </span></font><o:p></o:p></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal style='margin-left:.5in'><font size=2 face=Arial><span
style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Arial'>I would appreciate a little advice.
I am part of a well knit "Christian" community of 13
persons that steward the life of a wonderful little Retreat Centre called Rivendell
on Bowen Island near Vancouver (just down the road from Chris Corrigan). We
have been developing the centre's philosophy, offering spiritual hospitality
and companionship as well as being available as facilitators to the wide
variety of groups that come here. In a way we are the centre's staff, though it
is a non-stipendiary service. As a community we have a community retreat
ourselves three times a year ( normally there are only 2 or 3 here hosting the
centre at any one time). </span></font><o:p></o:p></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal style='margin-left:.5in'><font size=2 face=Arial><span
style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Arial'>Our next retreat is early next week.
And we have just decided that for the "content" of this retreat that
we would like to explore developing a covenant for ourselves to both deepen our
commitment to each other, and to state clearly who we are and what we are endeavouring
to do.</span></font><o:p></o:p></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal style='margin-left:.5in'><font size=2 face=Arial><span
style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Arial'>Now here is the "rub" and
the challenge. I have volunteered to facilitate an Open Space for this
exploration- something I have done about half a dozen times over the past 3
years, with much satisfaction and seeming success. However, in this case, I
want to be able to "open" and "hold" space, AND to be a
full participant. Has anyone had any experience of doing this? In our case, it
seems necessary to do this exploration totally "in house", but it
ought to include us all.</span></font><o:p></o:p></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal style='margin-left:.5in'><font size=2 face=Arial><span
style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Arial'>Any advice you might have for me as
I prepare for this venture would be much appreciated- short of telling me I
shouldn't do it as I am now committed.</span></font><o:p></o:p></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal style='margin-left:.5in'><font size=2 face=Arial><span
style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Arial'>Cheers and thanks in advance.</span></font><o:p></o:p></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal style='margin-left:.5in'><font size=2 face=Arial><span
style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Arial'>Marks</span></font><o:p></o:p></p>
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style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Arial'>of</span></font><o:p></o:p></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal style='margin-left:.5in'><font size=2 face="Times New Roman"><span
style='font-size:10.0pt'>Margaret & Marks McAvity<br>
S50, C16<br>
Galiano, BC<br>
Canada V0N 1P0<br>
<a href="mailto:mcavity@primus.ca">mcavity@primus.ca</a></span></font><o:p></o:p></p>
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<p style='margin-left:.5in'><font size=2 face="Times New Roman"><span
style='font-size:10.0pt'>604-616-7260(cell-Marks),250-539-2881(Galiano)<br>
604-328-4406(cell-Marg), 604-947-0077(Bowen-us) </span></font><o:p></o:p></p>
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