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<p class=MsoNormal><font size=2 color=blue face=Arial><span style='font-size:
10.0pt;font-family:Arial;color:blue'>Michael wrote:<o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><font size=2 color=blue face=Arial><span style='font-size:
10.0pt;font-family:Arial;color:blue'><o:p> </o:p></span></font></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span class=GramE><font size=2 color=red face=Arial><span
style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Arial;color:red'>how</span></font></span><font
size=2 color=red face=Arial><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Arial;
color:red'> does one find the balance between fear/control and letting go/going
with the flow?<o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
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10.0pt;font-family:Arial;color:blue'><o:p> </o:p></span></font></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><font size=2 color=blue face=Arial><span style='font-size:
10.0pt;font-family:Arial;color:blue'>I don’t think you ever will. And if
you did – you would be dead. As the fellow says – when you reach equilibrium
in biology, you are dead. So then what? I would guess we are all on a journey
up or down the river – replete with all sorts of ebbs and flows. It would
be great if it all would just even out (balance out). But it never does. <span
class=GramE>Unless of course you choose to leave the river . . .</span> <o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><font size=2 color=blue face=Arial><span style='font-size:
10.0pt;font-family:Arial;color:blue'><o:p> </o:p></span></font></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><st1:place><span class=SpellE><span class=GramE><font
size=2 color=blue face=Arial><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Arial;
color:blue'>harrison</span></font></span></span></st1:place><font size=2
color=blue face=Arial><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Arial;
color:blue'>.<o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
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10.0pt;font-family:Arial;color:navy'><o:p> </o:p></span></font></p>
<p class=MsoNormal style='margin-left:.5in'><font size=2 face=Tahoma><span
style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Tahoma'>-----Original Message-----<br>
<b><span style='font-weight:bold'>From:</span></b> OSLIST
[mailto:OSLIST@LISTSERV.BOISESTATE.EDU] <b><span style='font-weight:bold'>On
Behalf Of </span></b>Mike Copeland<br>
<b><span style='font-weight:bold'>Sent:</span></b> </span></font><st1:date
Month="11" Day="3" Year="2003"><font size=2 face=Tahoma><span style='font-size:
10.0pt;font-family:Tahoma'>Monday, November 03, 2003</span></font></st1:date><font
size=2 face=Tahoma><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Tahoma'> </span></font><st1:time
Hour="19" Minute="19"><font size=2 face=Tahoma><span style='font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:Tahoma'>7:19 PM</span></font></st1:time><font size=2 face=Tahoma><span
style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Tahoma'><br>
<b><span style='font-weight:bold'>To:</span></b> OSLIST@LISTSERV.BOISESTATE.EDU<br>
<b><span style='font-weight:bold'>Subject:</span></b> Re: Fear and control
(waxing lyrical)</span></font></p>
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style='font-size:12.0pt'><o:p> </o:p></span></font></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal style='margin-left:.5in'><font size=2 color=blue face=Arial><span
style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Arial;color:blue'>Beautiful words everyone </span></font><o:p></o:p></p>
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style='font-size:12.0pt'> <o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal style='margin-left:.5in'><font size=2 color=blue face=Arial><span
style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Arial;color:blue'>You have all brought me
to the guts of my initial enquiry: </span></font><o:p></o:p></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal style='margin-left:.5in'><font size=2 color=blue face=Arial><span
style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Arial;color:blue'> Finding that
balance comes back to being a co-creator with spirit for me. I am spirit's
hands, eyes, ears, mouth piece; yet I am not <u>all</u> of it! </span></font><o:p></o:p></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal style='margin-left:.5in'><font size=3 face="Times New Roman"><span
style='font-size:12.0pt'> <o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal style='margin-left:.5in'><font size=2 color=blue face=Arial><span
style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Arial;color:blue'>Spirit flows regardless
of whether I hold its waters tight or with open palms. My experience is
enhanced or diminished depending on <u>my </u>stance. This is what open space
is teaching me. My co-operation, malleableness, flexibility, ultimately <strong><b><font
face=Arial><span style='font-family:Arial'>openness </span></font></b></strong>to
spirit is what life is all about.</span></font><o:p></o:p></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal style='margin-left:.5in'><font size=3 face="Times New Roman"><span
style='font-size:12.0pt'> <o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal style='margin-left:.5in'><font size=2 color=blue face=Arial><span
style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Arial;color:blue'>The four principles, one
law and spirit of open space are not just for meetings. They are for living! In
trying to live these things out, in the furnace of everyday trials, especially
in relationships, open space provides me with a framework to be receptive
to spirit; mine and the world's. </span></font><o:p></o:p></p>
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style='font-size:12.0pt'> <o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal style='margin-left:.5in'><font size=2 color=blue face=Arial><span
style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Arial;color:blue'>That's all </span></font><o:p></o:p></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal style='margin-left:.5in'><font size=2 color=blue face=Arial><span
style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Arial;color:blue'>Mike Copeland</span></font><o:p></o:p></p>
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style='font-size:12.0pt'> <o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
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style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Arial;color:blue'> </span></font><o:p></o:p></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal style='mso-margin-top-alt:0in;margin-right:0in;margin-bottom:
12.0pt;margin-left:.5in'><font size=2 face=Tahoma><span style='font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:Tahoma'>-----Original Message-----<br>
<b><span style='font-weight:bold'>From:</span></b> Peggy Holman
[mailto:peggy@opencirclecompany.com] <br>
<b><span style='font-weight:bold'>Sent:</span></b> </span></font><st1:date
Month="11" Day="4" Year="2003"><font size=2 face=Tahoma><span style='font-size:
10.0pt;font-family:Tahoma'>Tuesday, 4 November 2003</span></font></st1:date><font
size=2 face=Tahoma><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Tahoma'> </span></font><st1:time
Hour="9" Minute="35"><font size=2 face=Tahoma><span style='font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:Tahoma'>9:35 a.m.</span></font></st1:time><font size=2
face=Tahoma><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Tahoma'><br>
<b><span style='font-weight:bold'>To:</span></b> OSLIST@LISTSERV.BOISESTATE.EDU<br>
<b><span style='font-weight:bold'>Subject:</span></b> Fw: Fear and control
(waxing lyrical)</span></font><o:p></o:p></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal style='margin-left:.5in'><font size=3 face="Times New Roman"><span
style='font-size:12.0pt'>Robyn -- lovely image!<o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
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style='font-size:12.0pt'> <o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal style='margin-left:.5in'><font size=3 face="Times New Roman"><span
style='font-size:12.0pt'>This conversation reminds me of one from last January
called "self-organization is what consciousness (spirit) does".<o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal style='margin-left:.5in'><font size=3 face="Times New Roman"><span
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<p class=MsoNormal style='margin-left:.5in'><font size=3 face="Times New Roman"><span
style='font-size:12.0pt'>I pulled this snippet of mine from it:<o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal style='margin-left:.5in'><font size=3 face="Times New Roman"><span
style='font-size:12.0pt'> <o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal style='mso-margin-top-alt:0in;margin-right:0in;margin-bottom:
12.0pt;margin-left:.5in'><font size=3 face=Arial><span style='font-size:12.0pt;
font-family:Arial'>I recently was given a gift of an image around this that
I've found quite<br>
helpful. A Buddhist priest attended Spirited Work (a learning
community<br>
that gathers quarterly in OS). He used an image of hands for holding
space.<br>
Actually, here are Master Chang's words:<br>
<br>
>Since I left </span></font><st1:place><font face=Arial><span
style='font-family:Arial'>Whidbey Island</span></font></st1:place><font
face=Arial><span style='font-family:Arial'>, I've constantly thought of OS and
its<br>
spiritual manifestation in earthly conditionings. It's dawn[ed] on me that<br>
>we constantly create mental boundaries and then transfigure them into<br>
organizational rules, etc., which we call containers. Thus, there are<br>
>levels upon levels of containers, depending on levels of minds that we<br>
have. What OP[OST] methodology attracts me is the way it can<br>
>facilitate and accommodate multi-levels of containers by very few simple<br>
rules of gathering and interaction. The challenge for me in >creating an<br>
OP[OST] organization is to be able to make available (and to promote)<br>
evolutionary & consequential levels of<br>
>unfoldment ... so one can evolve from "container/2 hands cupped,
facing<br>
each other" to "supporter/2 hands open, facing upwards" to
>"being/handless<br>
gesture" ...<br>
<br>
<br>
I LOVE this picture of hands reflecting the evolution of space, perhaps<br>
because it mirrors my own growing comfort with space. (While I aspire to<br>
it, I'm not sure I'm ready to hang out in the space of "look ma, no
hands!")<br>
It reminds me that we are all at different places of comfort with openness.<br>
I may go screaming from the room when the space feels too closed and someone<br>
else go running to their room because the space is too open.</span></font><o:p></o:p></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal style='margin-left:.5in'><font size=3 face="Times New Roman"><span
style='font-size:12.0pt'>Peggy<o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal style='margin-left:.5in'><font size=3 face="Times New Roman"><span
style='font-size:12.0pt'>----- Original Message ----- <o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal style='margin-left:.5in'><font size=3 face="Times New Roman"><span
style='font-size:12.0pt'>From: "Robyn" <<a
href="mailto:pov@IINET.NET.AU">pov@IINET.NET.AU</a>><o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal style='margin-left:.5in'><font size=3 face="Times New Roman"><span
style='font-size:12.0pt'>To: <<a href="mailto:OSLIST@LISTSERV.BOISESTATE.EDU">OSLIST@LISTSERV.BOISESTATE.EDU</a>><o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal style='margin-left:.5in'><font size=3 face="Times New Roman"><span
style='font-size:12.0pt'>Sent: </span></font><st1:date Month="11" Day="3"
Year="2003">Monday, November 03, 2003</st1:date> <st1:time Hour="6" Minute="22">6:22
AM</st1:time><o:p></o:p></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal style='margin-left:.5in'><font size=3 face="Times New Roman"><span
style='font-size:12.0pt'>Subject: Re: Fear and control (waxing lyrical)<o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal style='margin-left:.5in'><font size=3 face="Times New Roman"><span
style='font-size:12.0pt'>> RE:<br>
> If you close those two hands - you end up with two fists. Definitely not<br>
> what we want.<br>
> <br>
> ~ (delighted laughter!) I pictured the closing of two open hands, like<br>
> an almond. The result, according to a dear and wise women that I
know,<br>
> is the mandorla, which has become a very powerful symbol for me in my<br>
> journey towards wholeness.<br>
> <br>
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