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<DIV><FONT face=Arial>Dear Julie, and all,</FONT></DIV>
<DIV> </DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial><FONT color=#0000ff><EM>"It is a speaking wisdom rather
than a silent wisdom."</EM><o:p></o:p></FONT></FONT>
<P class=MsoNormal><FONT color=navy face=Arial><SPAN
style="COLOR: navy; FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p> </o:p></SPAN></FONT></P>
<P class=MsoNormal><FONT color=#000000 face=Arial><SPAN
style="COLOR: navy; FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p>You have such a way with words, Julie!
I recently saw another phrase (somewhere on the Internet) that talked about
three different kinds of power:</o:p></SPAN></FONT></P>
<UL>
<LI>
<DIV class=MsoNormal><FONT color=#000000 face=Arial><SPAN
style="COLOR: navy; FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p> The Power of
Communication</o:p></SPAN></FONT></DIV></LI>
<LI>
<DIV class=MsoNormal><FONT color=#000000 face=Arial><SPAN
style="COLOR: navy; FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p> The Power of
Position</o:p></SPAN></FONT></DIV></LI>
<LI>
<DIV class=MsoNormal><FONT color=#000000 face=Arial><SPAN
style="COLOR: navy; FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p> The Power of
Presence.</o:p></SPAN></FONT></DIV></LI></UL>
<P class=MsoNormal><FONT color=#000000 face=Arial><SPAN
style="COLOR: navy; FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p>They (sort of) correspond to what you
were saying, with the Power of Presence being silent
wisdom.</o:p></SPAN></FONT></P>
<P class=MsoNormal><FONT color=#000000><SPAN
style="COLOR: navy; FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></FONT> </P>
<P class=MsoNormal><FONT color=#000000 face=Arial><SPAN
style="COLOR: navy; FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p>Best wishes for the New
Year!</o:p></SPAN></FONT></P>
<P class=MsoNormal><FONT color=#000000><SPAN
style="COLOR: navy; FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></FONT> </P>
<P class=MsoNormal><FONT color=#000000 face=Arial><SPAN
style="COLOR: navy; FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p>wendy &
fredr'c</o:p></SPAN></FONT></P>
<P class=MsoNormal><FONT color=#000000 face=Arial><SPAN
style="COLOR: navy; FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p>homegrown
wisdom</o:p></SPAN></FONT></P>
<P class=MsoNormal><FONT color=#000000 face=Arial><SPAN
style="COLOR: navy; FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p>nova scotia,
canada</o:p></SPAN></FONT></P></DIV>
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<DIV style="FONT: 10pt arial"><FONT size=3>----- Original Message -----
</FONT></DIV>
<DIV
style="BACKGROUND: #e4e4e4; FONT: 10pt arial; font-color: black"><B>From:</B>
<A href="mailto:jsmith@mosquitonet.com" title=jsmith@mosquitonet.com>Julie
Smith</A> </DIV>
<DIV style="FONT: 10pt arial"><B>To:</B> <A
href="mailto:OSLIST@LISTSERV.BOISESTATE.EDU"
title=OSLIST@LISTSERV.BOISESTATE.EDU>OSLIST@LISTSERV.BOISESTATE.EDU</A> </DIV>
<DIV style="FONT: 10pt arial"><B>Sent:</B> Thursday, December 26, 2002 1:20
PM</DIV>
<DIV style="FONT: 10pt arial"><B>Subject:</B> Re: For those, who can afford
themselves to think on Christmass</DIV>
<DIV><BR></DIV>
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<P class=MsoNormal><FONT color=navy face="Times New Roman" size=3><SPAN
style="COLOR: navy; FONT-SIZE: 12pt">Dear Elena,<o:p></o:p></SPAN></FONT></P>
<P class=MsoNormal><FONT color=navy face="Times New Roman" size=3><SPAN
style="COLOR: navy; FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p> </o:p></SPAN></FONT></P>
<P class=MsoNormal><SPAN class=GramE><FONT color=navy face="Times New Roman"
size=3><SPAN style="COLOR: navy; FONT-SIZE: 12pt">Greetings from
</SPAN></FONT></SPAN><st1:State><st1:place><SPAN class=GramE><FONT
color=navy><SPAN
style="COLOR: navy">Alaska</SPAN></FONT></SPAN></st1:place></st1:State><SPAN
class=GramE><FONT color=navy><SPAN style="COLOR: navy"> on this
day-after-Christmas.</SPAN></FONT></SPAN><FONT color=navy><SPAN
style="COLOR: navy"><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>We might
finally have enough snow for my son to ski and my friends to mush their dogs
across the frozen tundra.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>It has
been an unusually warm winter in </SPAN></FONT><st1:City><st1:place><FONT
color=navy><SPAN
style="COLOR: navy">Fairbanks</SPAN></FONT></st1:place></st1:City><FONT
color=navy><SPAN style="COLOR: navy"> with very little
snow.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></FONT></P>
<P class=MsoNormal><FONT color=navy face="Times New Roman" size=3><SPAN
style="COLOR: navy; FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p> </o:p></SPAN></FONT></P>
<P class=MsoNormal><FONT color=navy face="Times New Roman" size=3><SPAN
style="COLOR: navy; FONT-SIZE: 12pt">Your questions remind me of the questions
I was asking when I first encountered OST.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN><SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>At that time, I was still spending some
of my time in the role of mediator.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">
</SPAN>In that role, it is proper to ask questions.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN><SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>It isn’t proper to lean or push toward
particular answers, but it IS proper to ask the questions that beg to be
asked.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>Through the questions she
asks, the mediator weaves her wisdom and intelligence with the wisdom and
intelligence of the group.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>It is
a speaking wisdom rather than a silent wisdom.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></FONT></P>
<P class=MsoNormal><FONT color=navy face="Times New Roman" size=3><SPAN
style="COLOR: navy; FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p> </o:p></SPAN></FONT></P>
<P class=MsoNormal><FONT color=navy face="Times New Roman" size=3><SPAN
style="COLOR: navy; FONT-SIZE: 12pt">Some on this list have indicated that
they sometimes participate in group discussions.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>I have also made that choice.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>For me, making that choice is all
about listening to my inner voice, and following wherever it leads.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN><o:p></o:p></SPAN></FONT></P>
<P class=MsoNormal><FONT color=navy face="Times New Roman" size=3><SPAN
style="COLOR: navy; FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p> </o:p></SPAN></FONT></P>
<P class=MsoNormal><FONT color=navy face="Times New Roman" size=3><SPAN
style="COLOR: navy; FONT-SIZE: 12pt">Our task is not to abide by some external
set of rules, but to follow the internal laws of our heart.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>OST is wonderful and powerful because
it so closely matches who we innately are, but there cannot be a single rigid
either-or rule about speaking and silence.<SPAN
style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>Sometimes one is called for, and
sometimes the other.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>Only our
internal knowing can tell us what is needed in the moment we’re
in.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></FONT></P>
<P class=MsoNormal><FONT color=navy face="Times New Roman" size=3><SPAN
style="COLOR: navy; FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p> </o:p></SPAN></FONT></P>
<P class=MsoNormal><FONT color=navy face="Times New Roman" size=3><SPAN
style="COLOR: navy; FONT-SIZE: 12pt">Much love,<o:p></o:p></SPAN></FONT></P>
<P class=MsoNormal><FONT color=navy face="Times New Roman" size=3><SPAN
style="COLOR: navy; FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><o:p> </o:p></SPAN></FONT></P>
<P class=MsoNormal><FONT color=navy face="Times New Roman" size=3><SPAN
style="COLOR: navy; FONT-SIZE: 12pt">Julie<o:p></o:p></SPAN></FONT></P></DIV></BLOCKQUOTE></BODY></HTML>