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<p class=MsoNormal><font size=2 face=Arial><span style='font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:Arial'>Meg,<o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><font size=2 face=Arial><span style='font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:Arial'><o:p> </o:p></span></font></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><font size=2 face=Arial><span style='font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:Arial'>Thanks for translating my muddledness into coherent
thought.<span style='mso-spacerun:yes'> </span>Nicely done and much
appreciated.<o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><font size=2 face=Arial><span style='font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:Arial'><o:p> </o:p></span></font></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><font size=2 face=Arial><span style='font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:Arial'>Julie<o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal><font size=2 face=Tahoma><span style='font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:Tahoma'>-----Original Message-----<br>
<b><span style='font-weight:bold'>From:</span></b> OSLIST
[mailto:OSLIST@LISTSERV.BOISESTATE.EDU] <b><span style='font-weight:bold'>On
Behalf Of </span></b>Meg Salter<br>
<b><span style='font-weight:bold'>Sent:</span></b> </span></font><st1:date
Month="6" Day="13" Year="2002"><font size=2 face=Tahoma><span style='font-size:
10.0pt;font-family:Tahoma'>Thursday, June 13, 2002</span></font></st1:date><font
size=2 face=Tahoma><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Tahoma'> </span></font><st1:time
Hour="5" Minute="43"><font size=2 face=Tahoma><span style='font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:Tahoma'>5:43 AM</span></font></st1:time><font size=2 face=Tahoma><span
style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Tahoma'><br>
<b><span style='font-weight:bold'>To:</span></b> OSLIST@LISTSERV.BOISESTATE.EDU<br>
<b><span style='font-weight:bold'>Subject:</span></b> Re: A First Step >From </span></font><st1:City><st1:place><font
size=2 face=Tahoma><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Tahoma'>Rome</span></font></st1:place></st1:City></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal><font size=2 face=Arial><span style='font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:Arial'>Harrison, Julie and OS friends</span></font><o:p></o:p></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal><font size=2 face=Arial><span style='font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:Arial'>Conflict resolution and peace making (with references to Ken
Wilber); Wasn't it Einstein who said that a true problem can never be solved
from the same state in which it was created? I think conflict resolution is
about "translation" - finding more effective ways of being/ doing,
while essentially still in the same paradigm. Peace making is about
transformation - developing/ growing to a new place from whence the old
conflicts dissolve. And in fact, both are our natural state. It's just that
they do different things.</span></font><o:p></o:p></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal><font size=2 face=Arial><span style='font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:Arial'>And the facilitator as a tuning fork / being fully present -
evokes and embodies a subtle reminder of these transformative passageways.
Of course passageways, like birth canals, aren't easy. Hence conflict may be
magnified, at least for a time. After all, that is what is going on. I wonder
if one of the greatest gifts of the facilitator is their appearance of
confidence/ faith in the participants. Going through that birth canal, you may not
be sure if you can make it. Having someone else provide that sense gives one
the hope that their might just be something at the other end!</span></font><o:p></o:p></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal><font size=2 face=Arial><span style='font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:Arial'>Meg Salter</span></font><o:p></o:p></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal><font size=2 face=Arial><span style='font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:Arial'>MegaSpace Consulting<br>
416/486-6660<br>
<a href="mailto:meg.salter@sympatico.ca">meg.salter@sympatico.ca</a><br>
<a href="http://www.megaspaceconsulting.com">www.megaspaceconsulting.com</a></span></font><font
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