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<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2>Tova,</FONT></DIV>
<DIV> </DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2>My love and greetings to you. Can you
feel my overflowing appreciation for your thoughts and words? Thank you
for what you spoke to me and for what you spoke for all of us.</FONT></DIV>
<DIV> </DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2>Julie</FONT></DIV>
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<DIV style="FONT: 10pt arial">----- Original Message ----- </DIV>
<DIV
style="BACKGROUND: #e4e4e4; FONT: 10pt arial; font-color: black"><B>From:</B>
<A href="mailto:averbuch@POST.TAU.AC.IL"
title=averbuch@POST.TAU.AC.IL>Averbuch</A> </DIV>
<DIV style="FONT: 10pt arial"><B>To:</B> <A
href="mailto:OSLIST@LISTSERV.BOISESTATE.EDU"
title=OSLIST@LISTSERV.BOISESTATE.EDU>OSLIST@LISTSERV.BOISESTATE.EDU</A> </DIV>
<DIV style="FONT: 10pt arial"><B>Sent:</B> Friday, September 14, 2001 5:54
AM</DIV>
<DIV style="FONT: 10pt arial"><B>Subject:</B> Re: Peace, Truth, Justice and
Mercy</DIV>
<DIV><BR></DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2>Dearest Julie</FONT></DIV>
<DIV> </DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2>you wrote:</FONT></DIV>
<DIV> </DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2>
< I want to say again that I have been deeply and
positively impacted by each and every message I have read on this list that
relates to the events
of Tuesday morning. I thank you from the bottom of my heart, one and
all. And also to all who remain silently understanding, I thank
you. Your silent support is as important as all that is spoken
outloud. I feel your strong and powerful presence. To those who I
know and love, and to those I have not yet known, thank
you.>
<DIV> </DIV></FONT></DIV>
<DIV> </DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2> You touched me so deeply and
so directly that as so you were hearing my thoughts and prayers.</FONT></DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2> I feel the need to say thank you from
the bottom of my joining heart</FONT><FONT face=Arial size=2>.</FONT></DIV>
<DIV> </DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2>My os friends:</FONT></DIV>
<DIV> </DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2> I did not have words. </FONT></DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2> but silent support </FONT></DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2> trying to care and carry</FONT></DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2>not to barry</FONT></DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2>hope</FONT></DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2> for those who are still under the
ruins</FONT></DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2>to be rescued, </FONT></DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2> awaiting what is to be born</FONT></DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2> after this end of the world.</FONT></DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2>being torn apart</FONT> </DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2>being a part of</FONT></DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2> *U.S, us and all of us </FONT></DIV>
<DIV> </DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2>(thank you florian for noticing *US -
us)</FONT></DIV>
<DIV> </DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2>I want to thank every one on the list for
being here and sharing and holding this space </FONT></DIV>
<DIV> </DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2>with support</FONT></DIV>
<DIV> </DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2>Tova Averbuch</FONT></DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2>Israel</FONT></DIV>
<DIV> </DIV>
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<DIV style="FONT: 10pt arial">----- Original Message ----- </DIV>
<DIV
style="BACKGROUND: #e4e4e4; FONT: 10pt arial; font-color: black"><B>From:</B>
<A href="mailto:jsmith@MOSQUITONET.COM" title=jsmith@MOSQUITONET.COM>Julie
Smith</A> </DIV>
<DIV style="FONT: 10pt arial"><B>To:</B> <A
href="mailto:OSLIST@LISTSERV.BOISESTATE.EDU"
title=OSLIST@LISTSERV.BOISESTATE.EDU>OSLIST@LISTSERV.BOISESTATE.EDU</A>
</DIV>
<DIV style="FONT: 10pt arial"><B>Sent:</B> Thursday, September 13, 2001
10:49 PM</DIV>
<DIV style="FONT: 10pt arial"><B>Subject:</B> Re: Peace, Truth, Justice and
Mercy</DIV>
<DIV><BR></DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2>Dear Eugenio and all,</FONT></DIV>
<DIV> </DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2>I have often shared that sense of relief when
someone, anyone, expressed understanding or appreciation of the words I have
spoken so wrenchingly from my heart. Eugenio, I thank you for putting
words to that feeling we all share. I want to say again that I have
been deeply and positively impacted by each and every message I have read on
this list that relates to the events of Tuesday morning. I thank you
from the bottom of my heart, one and all. And also to all who remain
silently understanding, I thank you. Your silent support is as
important as all that is spoken outloud. I feel your strong and
powerful presence. To those who I know and love, and to those I have
not yet known, thank you.</FONT></DIV>
<DIV> </DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2>In my efforts to push past my fear to reach my
open loving courageous space, these words from Audre Lourde sometimes
come to mind:</FONT></DIV>
<DIV> </DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2>"When I dare to be powerful, to use my strength
in the service of my vision, then it becomes less and less important whether
or not I am afraid."</FONT></DIV>
<DIV> </DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2>peace to us all ~</FONT></DIV>
<DIV> </DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2>Julie</FONT></DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2> </FONT></DIV>
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<DIV
style="BACKGROUND: #e4e4e4; FONT: 10pt arial; font-color: black"><B>From:</B>
<A href="mailto:eugenio.molini@telia.com"
title=eugenio.molini@telia.com>Eugenio Moliní</A> </DIV>
<DIV style="FONT: 10pt arial"><B>To:</B> <A
href="mailto:OSLIST@LISTSERV.BOISESTATE.EDU"
title=OSLIST@LISTSERV.BOISESTATE.EDU>OSLIST@LISTSERV.BOISESTATE.EDU</A>
</DIV>
<DIV style="FONT: 10pt arial"><B>Sent:</B> Thursday, September 13, 2001
10:03 AM</DIV>
<DIV style="FONT: 10pt arial"><B>Subject:</B> Re: Peace, Truth, Justice
and Mercy</DIV>
<DIV><BR></DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=070470417-13092001><FONT color=#808080 face=Arial
size=2>Dear all and Diane S. Menedez:</FONT></SPAN></DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=070470417-13092001><FONT color=#808080 face=Arial
size=2></FONT></SPAN> </DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=070470417-13092001><FONT color=#808080 face=Arial
size=2>I thank you from the deepest of my soul for your acknowledgement of
my message. It helped a lot to open my inner Space again. It took a great
effort to force myself out of shock and write my first message. After that
I was receeding again back into shock when your message asking for
more information came through showing that any voice, even mine,
counts. I share whatever needs to be shared if it can help anybody
anywhere. And by sharing also help myself to JUST DO IT! as Harrison
Owen exhorts us to do.</FONT></SPAN></DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=070470417-13092001><FONT color=#808080 face=Arial
size=2></FONT></SPAN> </DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=070470417-13092001><FONT color=#808080 face=Arial
size=2>This morning I was supervising at a psychiatric hospital here in
Stockholm, Sweden. The session became something different than what it
usually is. It became an Open Space for sharing whatever needed to be
shared. I didn´t do anything to open it. The need was just there. The
space kept closing and opening during three hours. The feelings of
powerlessness made some people utter terrible things about
inmigrants in general, muslims and jews in particular. The space closed,
but opened again in miraculous ways. I don' t get it, but I imagine that
that' s what we are going to see once and again in the months to come.
Responsibility and passion for keeping it open wherever we go is the
task.</FONT></SPAN></DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=070470417-13092001><FONT color=#808080 face=Arial
size=2></FONT></SPAN> </DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=070470417-13092001><FONT color=#808080 face=Arial
size=2>For some minutes ago I saw President Bush crying on TV and at the
same time saying : I have a job to do. Well, we cry, despair and shout,
... and we also have a job to do. <SPAN class=070470417-13092001><FONT
color=#808080 face=Arial size=2>I join my voice with H.Owens. JUST DO IT!
</FONT></SPAN><SPAN class=070470417-13092001><FONT color=#808080
face=Arial size=2></FONT></SPAN></FONT></SPAN></DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=070470417-13092001><FONT color=#808080 face=Arial
size=2></FONT></SPAN> </DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=070470417-13092001><FONT color=#808080 face=Arial
size=2>You question Diane:</FONT></SPAN></DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=070470417-13092001><FONT color=#808080 face=Arial
size=2>The training was organized by the Norwegian Peace Center, in
Lillehamer, Norway. The facilitator/trainer was John Paul Lederach, from
the Eastern Mennonite University, Virginia, USA. </FONT></SPAN><SPAN
class=070470417-13092001><FONT color=#808080 face=Arial size=2>He has
written some wonderful and useful books. Two of them
are:</FONT></SPAN></DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=070470417-13092001><FONT color=#808080 face=Arial
size=2></FONT></SPAN> </DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=070470417-13092001><FONT color=#808080 face=Arial
size=2>"Building Peace: Sustainable reconciliation in divided
societies"</FONT></SPAN></DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=070470417-13092001><FONT color=#808080 face=Arial
size=2>United States Institute for Peace Press 1997</FONT></SPAN></DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=070470417-13092001><FONT color=#808080 face=Arial
size=2>ISBN 1-878379-73-9</FONT></SPAN></DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=070470417-13092001><FONT color=#808080 face=Arial
size=2></FONT></SPAN> </DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=070470417-13092001><FONT color=#808080 face=Arial
size=2>"Preparing for pace: Conflict transformation across
cultures"</FONT></SPAN></DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=070470417-13092001><FONT color=#808080 face=Arial
size=2>Syracuse University Press 1995</FONT></SPAN></DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=070470417-13092001><FONT color=#808080 face=Arial
size=2>ISBN 0-8156-2656-8</FONT></SPAN></DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=070470417-13092001><FONT color=#808080 face=Arial
size=2></FONT></SPAN> </DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=070470417-13092001><FONT color=#808080 face=Arial
size=2></FONT></SPAN> </DIV>
<DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial>Moliní - Managing Complexity</FONT></DIV><FONT
face=Arial size=2><STRONG>Eugenio Moliní</STRONG></FONT></DIV>
<DIV align=left><FONT face=Arial size=2><A
href="mailto:eugenio.molini@telia.com">eugenio.molini@telia.com</A></FONT></DIV>
<DIV align=left><FONT face=Arial size=2>Mobil: +46 (0)70
5644668</FONT></DIV>
<DIV align=left><FONT face=Arial size=2>Brunbarsvagen 8</FONT></DIV>
<DIV align=left><FONT face=Arial size=2>11421 Stockholm</FONT></DIV>
<DIV align=left><FONT face=Arial size=2>Sverige</FONT></DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2></FONT> </DIV>
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<DIV align=left class=OutlookMessageHeader dir=ltr><FONT face=Tahoma
size=2>-----Original Message-----<BR><B>From:</B> OSLIST
[mailto:OSLIST@LISTSERV.BOISESTATE.EDU]<B>On Behalf Of </B>Diane S.
Menendez, Ph.D.<BR><B>Sent:</B> Thursday, September 13, 2001 3:24
PM<BR><B>To:</B> OSLIST@LISTSERV.BOISESTATE.EDU<BR><B>Subject:</B> Re:
Peace, Truth, Justice and Mercy<BR><BR></FONT></DIV>Hi to all and
Eugenio,<BR><BR>Can you share the name of the person or firm who did the
training? I'm participating in a collaborative here in Cincinncati
that is led by Jay Rothman, of the ARIA group, who specializes in
mediation for Identity Based Conflicts. The four voices are a
wonderfully memorable way of guiding our hearing and perceptions for
what is, and for what is missing and needed.<BR><BR>Thank you so
much.<BR><BR>Blessings,<BR>Diane<BR><BR>At 03:44 PM 9/12/01, you
wrote:<BR>
<BLOCKQUOTE class=cite type="cite" cite><FONT face=arial size=2>A
couple of years ago I was in a training for mediators called
"Sustainable Reconciliation in divided societies". </FONT><BR><FONT
face=arial size=2>Participants came from Chechenja, The Balcans, The
African Great Lakes Region, Northern Ireland, ... and a majority of
people like me from the western welfare societies. </FONT><BR><FONT
face=arial size=2>One of the most impacting learnings was that for
reconciliation to take place, four voices have to be heard and allowed
to permeate all actions. Those are the voices of Peace, Truth, Justice
and Mercy. </FONT><BR><FONT face=arial size=2>In the media and
political speeches I hear the voice of Justice clear and loud, maybe
the whispers of Truth.</FONT><BR><FONT face=arial size=2>In this
list/space I can read what Mercy and Peace have to
say.</FONT><BR><FONT face=arial size=2>Let´s keep the space open so
that all four can be expressed and acted in the same Space and at the
same Time.</FONT><BR><FONT face=arial size=2>I pray that president
Bush hears the four voices and allows them to permeate all the actions
that he will have to order.</FONT><BR><FONT face=arial size=2>My
deepest condoleances to all those that are directly affected by this
terrorist action and to all of us (and them whoever they are) that are
too.</FONT><BR> <BR><FONT face=arial>Moliní - Managing
Complexity</FONT><BR><FONT face=arial size=2><B>Eugenio
Moliní</B></FONT><BR><FONT face=arial size=2><A
href="mailto:eugenio.molini@telia.com">eugenio.molini@telia.com</A></FONT><BR><FONT
face=arial size=2>Mobil: +46 (0)70 5644668</FONT><BR><FONT face=arial
size=2>Brunbarsvagen 8</FONT><BR><FONT face=arial size=2>11421
Stockholm</FONT><BR><FONT face=arial
size=2>Sverige</FONT><BR> <BR> </BLOCKQUOTE><X-SIGSEP>
<P></X-SIGSEP><FONT color=#008080 face="Dom Casual" size=4>Diane S.
Menendez,
Ph.D.
Master Certified Coach</FONT><FONT face="Dom Casual" size=4> </FONT>
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