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<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2>Dearest Julie</FONT></DIV>
<DIV> </DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2>you wrote:</FONT></DIV>
<DIV> </DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2>
< I want to say again that I have been deeply and
positively impacted by each and every message I have read on this list that
relates to the events
of Tuesday morning. I thank you from the bottom of my heart, one and
all. And also to all who remain silently understanding, I thank
you. Your silent support is as important as all that is spoken
outloud. I feel your strong and powerful presence. To those who I
know and love, and to those I have not yet known, thank
you.>
<DIV> </DIV></FONT></DIV>
<DIV> </DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2> You touched me so deeply and so
directly that as so you were hearing my thoughts and prayers.</FONT></DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2> I feel the need to say thank you from
the bottom of my joining heart</FONT><FONT face=Arial size=2>.</FONT></DIV>
<DIV> </DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2>My os friends:</FONT></DIV>
<DIV> </DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2> I did not have words. </FONT></DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2> but silent support </FONT></DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2> trying to care and carry</FONT></DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2>not to barry</FONT></DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2>hope</FONT></DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2> for those who are still under the
ruins</FONT></DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2>to be rescued, </FONT></DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2> awaiting what is to be born</FONT></DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2> after this end of the world.</FONT></DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2>being torn apart</FONT> </DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2>being a part of</FONT></DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2> *U.S, us and all of us </FONT></DIV>
<DIV> </DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2>(thank you florian for noticing *US -
us)</FONT></DIV>
<DIV> </DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2>I want to thank every one on the list for
being here and sharing and holding this space </FONT></DIV>
<DIV> </DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2>with support</FONT></DIV>
<DIV> </DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2>Tova Averbuch</FONT></DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2>Israel</FONT></DIV>
<DIV> </DIV>
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<DIV style="FONT: 10pt arial">----- Original Message ----- </DIV>
<DIV
style="BACKGROUND: #e4e4e4; FONT: 10pt arial; font-color: black"><B>From:</B>
<A href="mailto:jsmith@MOSQUITONET.COM" title=jsmith@MOSQUITONET.COM>Julie
Smith</A> </DIV>
<DIV style="FONT: 10pt arial"><B>To:</B> <A
href="mailto:OSLIST@LISTSERV.BOISESTATE.EDU"
title=OSLIST@LISTSERV.BOISESTATE.EDU>OSLIST@LISTSERV.BOISESTATE.EDU</A> </DIV>
<DIV style="FONT: 10pt arial"><B>Sent:</B> Thursday, September 13, 2001 10:49
PM</DIV>
<DIV style="FONT: 10pt arial"><B>Subject:</B> Re: Peace, Truth, Justice and
Mercy</DIV>
<DIV><BR></DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2>Dear Eugenio and all,</FONT></DIV>
<DIV> </DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2>I have often shared that sense of relief when
someone, anyone, expressed understanding or appreciation of the words I have
spoken so wrenchingly from my heart. Eugenio, I thank you for putting
words to that feeling we all share. I want to say again that I have been
deeply and positively impacted by each and every message I have read on this
list that relates to the events of Tuesday morning. I thank you from the
bottom of my heart, one and all. And also to all who remain silently
understanding, I thank you. Your silent support is as important as
all that is spoken outloud. I feel your strong and powerful
presence. To those who I know and love, and to those I have not yet
known, thank you.</FONT></DIV>
<DIV> </DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2>In my efforts to push past my fear to reach my
open loving courageous space, these words from Audre Lourde sometimes
come to mind:</FONT></DIV>
<DIV> </DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2>"When I dare to be powerful, to use my strength
in the service of my vision, then it becomes less and less important whether
or not I am afraid."</FONT></DIV>
<DIV> </DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2>peace to us all ~</FONT></DIV>
<DIV> </DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2>Julie</FONT></DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2> </FONT></DIV>
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<DIV style="FONT: 10pt arial">----- Original Message ----- </DIV>
<DIV
style="BACKGROUND: #e4e4e4; FONT: 10pt arial; font-color: black"><B>From:</B>
<A href="mailto:eugenio.molini@telia.com"
title=eugenio.molini@telia.com>Eugenio Moliní</A> </DIV>
<DIV style="FONT: 10pt arial"><B>To:</B> <A
href="mailto:OSLIST@LISTSERV.BOISESTATE.EDU"
title=OSLIST@LISTSERV.BOISESTATE.EDU>OSLIST@LISTSERV.BOISESTATE.EDU</A>
</DIV>
<DIV style="FONT: 10pt arial"><B>Sent:</B> Thursday, September 13, 2001
10:03 AM</DIV>
<DIV style="FONT: 10pt arial"><B>Subject:</B> Re: Peace, Truth, Justice and
Mercy</DIV>
<DIV><BR></DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=070470417-13092001><FONT color=#808080 face=Arial
size=2>Dear all and Diane S. Menedez:</FONT></SPAN></DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=070470417-13092001><FONT color=#808080 face=Arial
size=2></FONT></SPAN> </DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=070470417-13092001><FONT color=#808080 face=Arial size=2>I
thank you from the deepest of my soul for your acknowledgement of my
message. It helped a lot to open my inner Space again. It took a great
effort to force myself out of shock and write my first message. After that
I was receeding again back into shock when your message asking for more
information came through showing that any voice, even mine, counts. I
share whatever needs to be shared if it can help anybody anywhere. And by
sharing also help myself to JUST DO IT! as Harrison Owen exhorts us to
do.</FONT></SPAN></DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=070470417-13092001><FONT color=#808080 face=Arial
size=2></FONT></SPAN> </DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=070470417-13092001><FONT color=#808080 face=Arial
size=2>This morning I was supervising at a psychiatric hospital here in
Stockholm, Sweden. The session became something different than what it
usually is. It became an Open Space for sharing whatever needed to be
shared. I didn´t do anything to open it. The need was just there. The space
kept closing and opening during three hours. The feelings of powerlessness
made some people utter terrible things about inmigrants in general,
muslims and jews in particular. The space closed, but opened again in
miraculous ways. I don' t get it, but I imagine that that' s what we are
going to see once and again in the months to come. Responsibility and
passion for keeping it open wherever we go is the
task.</FONT></SPAN></DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=070470417-13092001><FONT color=#808080 face=Arial
size=2></FONT></SPAN> </DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=070470417-13092001><FONT color=#808080 face=Arial
size=2>For some minutes ago I saw President Bush crying on TV and at the
same time saying : I have a job to do. Well, we cry, despair and shout, ...
and we also have a job to do. <SPAN class=070470417-13092001><FONT
color=#808080 face=Arial size=2>I join my voice with H.Owens. JUST DO IT!
</FONT></SPAN><SPAN class=070470417-13092001><FONT color=#808080 face=Arial
size=2></FONT></SPAN></FONT></SPAN></DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=070470417-13092001><FONT color=#808080 face=Arial
size=2></FONT></SPAN> </DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=070470417-13092001><FONT color=#808080 face=Arial
size=2>You question Diane:</FONT></SPAN></DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=070470417-13092001><FONT color=#808080 face=Arial
size=2>The training was organized by the Norwegian Peace Center, in
Lillehamer, Norway. The facilitator/trainer was John Paul Lederach, from the
Eastern Mennonite University, Virginia, USA. </FONT></SPAN><SPAN
class=070470417-13092001><FONT color=#808080 face=Arial size=2>He has
written some wonderful and useful books. Two of them
are:</FONT></SPAN></DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=070470417-13092001><FONT color=#808080 face=Arial
size=2></FONT></SPAN> </DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=070470417-13092001><FONT color=#808080 face=Arial
size=2>"Building Peace: Sustainable reconciliation in divided
societies"</FONT></SPAN></DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=070470417-13092001><FONT color=#808080 face=Arial
size=2>United States Institute for Peace Press 1997</FONT></SPAN></DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=070470417-13092001><FONT color=#808080 face=Arial
size=2>ISBN 1-878379-73-9</FONT></SPAN></DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=070470417-13092001><FONT color=#808080 face=Arial
size=2></FONT></SPAN> </DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=070470417-13092001><FONT color=#808080 face=Arial
size=2>"Preparing for pace: Conflict transformation across
cultures"</FONT></SPAN></DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=070470417-13092001><FONT color=#808080 face=Arial
size=2>Syracuse University Press 1995</FONT></SPAN></DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=070470417-13092001><FONT color=#808080 face=Arial
size=2>ISBN 0-8156-2656-8</FONT></SPAN></DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=070470417-13092001><FONT color=#808080 face=Arial
size=2></FONT></SPAN> </DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=070470417-13092001><FONT color=#808080 face=Arial
size=2></FONT></SPAN> </DIV>
<DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial>Moliní - Managing Complexity</FONT></DIV><FONT
face=Arial size=2><STRONG>Eugenio Moliní</STRONG></FONT></DIV>
<DIV align=left><FONT face=Arial size=2><A
href="mailto:eugenio.molini@telia.com">eugenio.molini@telia.com</A></FONT></DIV>
<DIV align=left><FONT face=Arial size=2>Mobil: +46 (0)70
5644668</FONT></DIV>
<DIV align=left><FONT face=Arial size=2>Brunbarsvagen 8</FONT></DIV>
<DIV align=left><FONT face=Arial size=2>11421 Stockholm</FONT></DIV>
<DIV align=left><FONT face=Arial size=2>Sverige</FONT></DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2></FONT> </DIV>
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<DIV align=left class=OutlookMessageHeader dir=ltr><FONT face=Tahoma
size=2>-----Original Message-----<BR><B>From:</B> OSLIST
[mailto:OSLIST@LISTSERV.BOISESTATE.EDU]<B>On Behalf Of </B>Diane S.
Menendez, Ph.D.<BR><B>Sent:</B> Thursday, September 13, 2001 3:24
PM<BR><B>To:</B> OSLIST@LISTSERV.BOISESTATE.EDU<BR><B>Subject:</B> Re:
Peace, Truth, Justice and Mercy<BR><BR></FONT></DIV>Hi to all and
Eugenio,<BR><BR>Can you share the name of the person or firm who did the
training? I'm participating in a collaborative here in Cincinncati
that is led by Jay Rothman, of the ARIA group, who specializes in
mediation for Identity Based Conflicts. The four voices are a
wonderfully memorable way of guiding our hearing and perceptions for what
is, and for what is missing and needed.<BR><BR>Thank you so
much.<BR><BR>Blessings,<BR>Diane<BR><BR>At 03:44 PM 9/12/01, you
wrote:<BR>
<BLOCKQUOTE class=cite cite type="cite"><FONT face=arial size=2>A couple
of years ago I was in a training for mediators called "Sustainable
Reconciliation in divided societies". </FONT><BR><FONT face=arial
size=2>Participants came from Chechenja, The Balcans, The African Great
Lakes Region, Northern Ireland, ... and a majority of people like me
from the western welfare societies. </FONT><BR><FONT face=arial
size=2>One of the most impacting learnings was that for reconciliation
to take place, four voices have to be heard and allowed to permeate all
actions. Those are the voices of Peace, Truth, Justice and Mercy.
</FONT><BR><FONT face=arial size=2>In the media and political speeches I
hear the voice of Justice clear and loud, maybe the whispers of
Truth.</FONT><BR><FONT face=arial size=2>In this list/space I can read
what Mercy and Peace have to say.</FONT><BR><FONT face=arial
size=2>Let´s keep the space open so that all four can be expressed and
acted in the same Space and at the same Time.</FONT><BR><FONT face=arial
size=2>I pray that president Bush hears the four voices and allows them
to permeate all the actions that he will have to order.</FONT><BR><FONT
face=arial size=2>My deepest condoleances to all those that are directly
affected by this terrorist action and to all of us (and them whoever
they are) that are too.</FONT><BR> <BR><FONT face=arial>Moliní -
Managing Complexity</FONT><BR><FONT face=arial size=2><B>Eugenio
Moliní</B></FONT><BR><FONT face=arial size=2><A
href="mailto:eugenio.molini@telia.com">eugenio.molini@telia.com</A></FONT><BR><FONT
face=arial size=2>Mobil: +46 (0)70 5644668</FONT><BR><FONT face=arial
size=2>Brunbarsvagen 8</FONT><BR><FONT face=arial size=2>11421
Stockholm</FONT><BR><FONT face=arial
size=2>Sverige</FONT><BR> <BR> </BLOCKQUOTE><X-SIGSEP>
<P></X-SIGSEP><FONT color=#008080 face="Dom Casual" size=4>Diane S.
Menendez,
Ph.D.
Master Certified Coach</FONT><FONT face="Dom Casual" size=4> </FONT>
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