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<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2>Dear Eugenio and all,</FONT></DIV>
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<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2>I have often shared that sense of relief when
someone, anyone, expressed understanding or appreciation of the words I have
spoken so wrenchingly from my heart. Eugenio, I thank you for putting
words to that feeling we all share. I want to say again that I have been
deeply and positively impacted by each and every message I have read on this
list that relates to the events of Tuesday morning. I thank you from the
bottom of my heart, one and all. And also to all who remain silently
understanding, I thank you. Your silent support is as important as
all that is spoken outloud. I feel your strong and powerful
presence. To those who I know and love, and to those I have not yet known,
thank you.</FONT></DIV>
<DIV> </DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2>In my efforts to push past my fear to reach my open
loving courageous space, these words from Audre Lourde sometimes come to
mind:</FONT></DIV>
<DIV> </DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2>"When I dare to be powerful, to use my strength in
the service of my vision, then it becomes less and less important whether or not
I am afraid."</FONT></DIV>
<DIV> </DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2>peace to us all ~</FONT></DIV>
<DIV> </DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2>Julie</FONT></DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2> </FONT></DIV>
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<DIV style="FONT: 10pt arial">----- Original Message ----- </DIV>
<DIV
style="BACKGROUND: #e4e4e4; FONT: 10pt arial; font-color: black"><B>From:</B>
<A href="mailto:eugenio.molini@telia.com"
title=eugenio.molini@telia.com>Eugenio Moliní</A> </DIV>
<DIV style="FONT: 10pt arial"><B>To:</B> <A
href="mailto:OSLIST@LISTSERV.BOISESTATE.EDU"
title=OSLIST@LISTSERV.BOISESTATE.EDU>OSLIST@LISTSERV.BOISESTATE.EDU</A> </DIV>
<DIV style="FONT: 10pt arial"><B>Sent:</B> Thursday, September 13, 2001 10:03
AM</DIV>
<DIV style="FONT: 10pt arial"><B>Subject:</B> Re: Peace, Truth, Justice and
Mercy</DIV>
<DIV><BR></DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=070470417-13092001><FONT color=#808080 face=Arial size=2>Dear
all and Diane S. Menedez:</FONT></SPAN></DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=070470417-13092001><FONT color=#808080 face=Arial
size=2></FONT></SPAN> </DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=070470417-13092001><FONT color=#808080 face=Arial size=2>I
thank you from the deepest of my soul for your acknowledgement of my message.
It helped a lot to open my inner Space again. It took a great effort to force
myself out of shock and write my first message. After that I was
receeding again back into shock when your message asking for more information
came through showing that any voice, even mine, counts. I share whatever
needs to be shared if it can help anybody anywhere. And by sharing also
help myself to JUST DO IT! as Harrison Owen exhorts us to
do.</FONT></SPAN></DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=070470417-13092001><FONT color=#808080 face=Arial
size=2></FONT></SPAN> </DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=070470417-13092001><FONT color=#808080 face=Arial size=2>This
morning I was supervising at a psychiatric hospital here in Stockholm, Sweden.
The session became something different than what it usually is. It became an
Open Space for sharing whatever needed to be shared. I didn´t do anything to
open it. The need was just there. The space kept closing and opening during
three hours. The feelings of powerlessness made some people utter
terrible things about inmigrants in general, muslims and jews in particular.
The space closed, but opened again in miraculous ways. I don' t get it, but I
imagine that that' s what we are going to see once and again in the months to
come. Responsibility and passion for keeping it open wherever we go is
the task.</FONT></SPAN></DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=070470417-13092001><FONT color=#808080 face=Arial
size=2></FONT></SPAN> </DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=070470417-13092001><FONT color=#808080 face=Arial size=2>For
some minutes ago I saw President Bush crying on TV and at the same time saying
: I have a job to do. Well, we cry, despair and shout, ... and we also have a
job to do. <SPAN class=070470417-13092001><FONT color=#808080 face=Arial
size=2>I join my voice with H.Owens. JUST DO IT! </FONT></SPAN><SPAN
class=070470417-13092001><FONT color=#808080 face=Arial
size=2></FONT></SPAN></FONT></SPAN></DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=070470417-13092001><FONT color=#808080 face=Arial
size=2></FONT></SPAN> </DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=070470417-13092001><FONT color=#808080 face=Arial size=2>You
question Diane:</FONT></SPAN></DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=070470417-13092001><FONT color=#808080 face=Arial size=2>The
training was organized by the Norwegian Peace Center, in Lillehamer, Norway.
The facilitator/trainer was John Paul Lederach, from the Eastern Mennonite
University, Virginia, USA. </FONT></SPAN><SPAN class=070470417-13092001><FONT
color=#808080 face=Arial size=2>He has written some wonderful and useful
books. Two of them are:</FONT></SPAN></DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=070470417-13092001><FONT color=#808080 face=Arial
size=2></FONT></SPAN> </DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=070470417-13092001><FONT color=#808080 face=Arial
size=2>"Building Peace: Sustainable reconciliation in divided
societies"</FONT></SPAN></DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=070470417-13092001><FONT color=#808080 face=Arial
size=2>United States Institute for Peace Press 1997</FONT></SPAN></DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=070470417-13092001><FONT color=#808080 face=Arial size=2>ISBN
1-878379-73-9</FONT></SPAN></DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=070470417-13092001><FONT color=#808080 face=Arial
size=2></FONT></SPAN> </DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=070470417-13092001><FONT color=#808080 face=Arial
size=2>"Preparing for pace: Conflict transformation across
cultures"</FONT></SPAN></DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=070470417-13092001><FONT color=#808080 face=Arial
size=2>Syracuse University Press 1995</FONT></SPAN></DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=070470417-13092001><FONT color=#808080 face=Arial size=2>ISBN
0-8156-2656-8</FONT></SPAN></DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=070470417-13092001><FONT color=#808080 face=Arial
size=2></FONT></SPAN> </DIV>
<DIV><SPAN class=070470417-13092001><FONT color=#808080 face=Arial
size=2></FONT></SPAN> </DIV>
<DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial>Moliní - Managing Complexity</FONT></DIV><FONT
face=Arial size=2><STRONG>Eugenio Moliní</STRONG></FONT></DIV>
<DIV align=left><FONT face=Arial size=2><A
href="mailto:eugenio.molini@telia.com">eugenio.molini@telia.com</A></FONT></DIV>
<DIV align=left><FONT face=Arial size=2>Mobil: +46 (0)70 5644668</FONT></DIV>
<DIV align=left><FONT face=Arial size=2>Brunbarsvagen 8</FONT></DIV>
<DIV align=left><FONT face=Arial size=2>11421 Stockholm</FONT></DIV>
<DIV align=left><FONT face=Arial size=2>Sverige</FONT></DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2></FONT> </DIV>
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<DIV align=left class=OutlookMessageHeader dir=ltr><FONT face=Tahoma
size=2>-----Original Message-----<BR><B>From:</B> OSLIST
[mailto:OSLIST@LISTSERV.BOISESTATE.EDU]<B>On Behalf Of </B>Diane S.
Menendez, Ph.D.<BR><B>Sent:</B> Thursday, September 13, 2001 3:24
PM<BR><B>To:</B> OSLIST@LISTSERV.BOISESTATE.EDU<BR><B>Subject:</B> Re:
Peace, Truth, Justice and Mercy<BR><BR></FONT></DIV>Hi to all and
Eugenio,<BR><BR>Can you share the name of the person or firm who did the
training? I'm participating in a collaborative here in Cincinncati
that is led by Jay Rothman, of the ARIA group, who specializes in mediation
for Identity Based Conflicts. The four voices are a wonderfully
memorable way of guiding our hearing and perceptions for what is, and for
what is missing and needed.<BR><BR>Thank you so
much.<BR><BR>Blessings,<BR>Diane<BR><BR>At 03:44 PM 9/12/01, you wrote:<BR>
<BLOCKQUOTE class=cite type="cite" cite><FONT face=arial size=2>A couple
of years ago I was in a training for mediators called "Sustainable
Reconciliation in divided societies". </FONT><BR><FONT face=arial
size=2>Participants came from Chechenja, The Balcans, The African Great
Lakes Region, Northern Ireland, ... and a majority of people like me from
the western welfare societies. </FONT><BR><FONT face=arial size=2>One of
the most impacting learnings was that for reconciliation to take place,
four voices have to be heard and allowed to permeate all actions. Those
are the voices of Peace, Truth, Justice and Mercy. </FONT><BR><FONT
face=arial size=2>In the media and political speeches I hear the voice of
Justice clear and loud, maybe the whispers of Truth.</FONT><BR><FONT
face=arial size=2>In this list/space I can read what Mercy and Peace have
to say.</FONT><BR><FONT face=arial size=2>Let´s keep the space open so
that all four can be expressed and acted in the same Space and at the same
Time.</FONT><BR><FONT face=arial size=2>I pray that president Bush hears
the four voices and allows them to permeate all the actions that he will
have to order.</FONT><BR><FONT face=arial size=2>My deepest condoleances
to all those that are directly affected by this terrorist action and to
all of us (and them whoever they are) that are
too.</FONT><BR> <BR><FONT face=arial>Moliní - Managing
Complexity</FONT><BR><FONT face=arial size=2><B>Eugenio
Moliní</B></FONT><BR><FONT face=arial size=2><A
href="mailto:eugenio.molini@telia.com">eugenio.molini@telia.com</A></FONT><BR><FONT
face=arial size=2>Mobil: +46 (0)70 5644668</FONT><BR><FONT face=arial
size=2>Brunbarsvagen 8</FONT><BR><FONT face=arial size=2>11421
Stockholm</FONT><BR><FONT face=arial
size=2>Sverige</FONT><BR> <BR> </BLOCKQUOTE><X-SIGSEP>
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