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<DIV><FONT color=#0000ff face=Arial size=2><SPAN
class=710115316-06022001>Chris,</SPAN></FONT></DIV>
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<DIV><FONT color=#0000ff face=Arial size=2><SPAN class=710115316-06022001>I have
waited to reply for a relaxed opportunity.</SPAN></FONT></DIV>
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<DIV><FONT color=#0000ff face=Arial size=2><SPAN class=710115316-06022001>My
perspective comes from a more theraputic model. You desribe your response
well and I trust quite accurately. To lock yourself in the bathroom and
spend time outside, in contrast to coloring and being relaxed, would be
impossible for the group not to notice. This is NOT a criticism. You
then have two choices - deny it or share it. OS is about one and not the
other. You did a beautiful job of sharing your process without inflicting
it on the group. My suspision is that the process would have derailed had
you not made your statement related to your experience. People would have
felt less safe and more uncertain. In this situation, if you had waited
for some evidence the group "noticed", it probably would have been too
late.</SPAN></FONT></DIV>
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<DIV><FONT color=#0000ff face=Arial size=2><SPAN class=710115316-06022001>Thanks
for sharing your process.</SPAN></FONT></DIV>
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<DIV><FONT color=#0000ff face=Arial size=2><SPAN
class=710115316-06022001>Aho</SPAN></FONT></DIV>
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<DIV><FONT color=#0000ff face=Arial size=2><SPAN
class=710115316-06022001>Dave</SPAN></FONT></DIV></BODY></HTML>