[OSList] About time and napping

Daniel Mezick dan at newtechusa.net
Fri Jul 11 07:54:33 PDT 2014


I often drive the interstate highway (Mass Pike) for 2 hours home at 
night, from Boston MA to my home in North Guilford CT.

One time, I literally fell asleep. Driving. I woke up to a **bump**.
I look up, I am driving, it is night-time, I am looking at the car in 
front of me. Apparently I touched this car with my car. At 65 MPH!
(We were going at similar speeds, him 65MPH, me maybe 66MPH, so I kind 
of nudged the car in front of me.....)

The driver of that that car immediately pulled away at about 90 miles an 
hour, putting distance on me like a bad habit.

There was no one else on the road.

I pulled over, scared to death, jolted with massive levels of adrenalin. 
Eventually I settled down and slept for about half an hour.

And drove very slowly home.


Every  since then, whenever I drive at night, if I am the least bit 
tired, I just pull over and take a nap.

And it is amazing. 15 minutes of shuteye makes everything right.

Daniel


On 7/11/14 10:33 AM, Spark Stanley Park wrote:
>
> Dear Michael,
>
> Good to hear!!!^^
>
> 2014. 7. 11. ?? 8:17? "Michael M Pannwitz" <mmpannwitz at gmail.com 
> <mailto:mmpannwitz at gmail.com>> ?? ??:
>
>     Dear Kari,
>
>     when I go through the various kinds of things people can do at an
>     os event (design a project, have a collegiate consultation, mull
>     over a wicked issue, write a poem, play...) I usually also say
>     that participants have used breakout session time for a nap.
>     In one case this was picked up by a participant as an "isssue" he
>     invited to.
>     In a couple of cases there was the wish in the planning group to
>     actually arrange for a napping space (this happened, for instance,
>     at an os event I facilitated in the space of the Heilig Kreuz
>     Church where we had the 2010 WOSonOS...)..
>
>     Take care and a pretty tested way of taking care of yourself is to
>     just take a nap
>
>     I will take a nap during the soccer match on Sunday...
>
>     Cheers
>     mmp
>
>     On 11.07.2014 12:58, Kári Gunnarsson wrote:
>
>         This is fascinating..
>         The supine posture: Having the front or ventral part bent
>         backwards.
>         This as a sign of trust in others or a show of vulnerability,
>         much open space.
>
>         If I understand this controversial topic correctly, then apart
>         from
>         the personal benefits to my body, the nap is also a
>         facilitation tool
>         and an essential part of open space and the law of two feet as
>         part of
>         the butterfly behavior.
>
>         I sometimes say that the butterfly has some valued gifts to
>         give to
>         the Open Space, apart from the opportunity, then it gives the
>         feeling
>         of trust to contribute from the hart and to open up and be
>         vulnerable,
>         step forward and offer your gifts. If the butterflies have been
>         removed, then I fear that I will be removed if I show
>         vulnerability.
>
>         I wonder if I should find the courage to demonstrate the nap
>         as part
>         of the facilitator opening in an urgent Open Space for a corporate
>         client.
>
>         In my minds eye it would go something like this:
>
>         - Sponsor opening speech:
>         Welcome, we have invited you here to <insert the urgent
>         theme>. And
>         now I give the stage to our facilitator.
>
>         - Facilitator opening speech:
>         <The normal introduction about the blank wall, personal
>         responsibility
>         and the principles> ..  But as I welcome you all to enter the
>         center
>         and collect some writing papers, then I like to remember one
>         of the
>         roles of the facilitator. It is to foster a culture of trust
>         to create
>         a saver space for innovation. From the beginning of the Open
>         Space as
>         Technology, the nap has been one of the most trust building
>         tool there
>         is, I intent to use the most effective tools for our urgent theme
>         <restate theme>, and as you write our and announce your issues and
>         opportunities I will be here taking a nap. My assistant has a
>         microphone for topic announcements...
>
>         Now all I think about:
>         ... How to be present while napping?
>
>         I will probably not do this and justify it by the imagination
>         that I
>         am needed at the wall while the topic announcements is happen.
>         But I
>         could add the nap as part of my formal practice, when I
>         announce the
>         marketplace to be open. ...  This is interesting, I am adding
>         a thing
>         to Open Space, not taking a thing away. or .. I am conflicted
>         if a nap
>         is to add a thing or to remove a thing, that is I am removing
>         me as
>         facilitator without removing my presence as one. ... There are
>         many
>         questions, should I nap in the circle to the side or at the
>         center, or
>         keep to the less intrusive nap by going to the side in the
>         next room.
>
>         I wonder.
>
>         / Kári
>
>         On 11 July 2014 07:31, toke at interchange.dk
>         <mailto:toke at interchange.dk> <toke at interchange.dk
>         <mailto:toke at interchange.dk>> wrote:
>
>             Hi Harrison
>
>             Ach supination!
>
>             Thank you for a new word to describe this good activity.
>
>             Me and my mate Sarah have evolved another nothern european
>             word for this
>             - we call it
>
>             schlafening
>
>             A nice cocktail of German and English but it may belong -
>             like supine,
>             supination and such to a new language for the art of
>             napping....
>             - the juice is in the pronounciation....
>
>             :)
>
>             Toke
>              From my iPhone
>             Toke Paludan Møller
>             +45 2616 6919
>             toke at interchange.dk <mailto:toke at interchange.dk>
>             www.interchange.dk <http://www.interchange.dk>
>
>
>             On 09/07/2014, at 17.44, "Harrison Owen"
>             <hhowen at verizon.net <mailto:hhowen at verizon.net>> wrote:
>
>             This discussion about napping is definitely getting out of
>             hand...to say
>             nothing of control! As one who has taken no small amount
>             of abuse over the
>             years in regard to my proclivity for supination, I am
>             simply delighted to
>             see so many closet supinators coming out. "Supination," by
>             the way, is a
>             word I made up ( I think). As you probably know, to be
>             "supine" is to lie
>             down, and that is the normal position of nappers -- hence
>             supination,
>             supinator, supinated, etc. It is a great cover word, so
>             you don't give away
>             the secret! And every arcane practice MUST have its secret
>             nomenclature.
>
>
>
>             I confess that I supinate primarily for one reason: It
>             feels good. Never
>             according to plan, but always in response to need and
>             situation. I have a
>             sign in my office that says, "No day is so bad that it
>             can't be improved
>             with a nap." True! I find it also helps me to pace my
>             energy expenditure. In
>             fact I find that the critical time for a good supination
>             is when I am over
>             the top busy. It restores a sense of flow, purpose and
>             presence. It also
>             reminds me that I am really not essential. The world will
>             turn all by itself
>             J
>
>
>
>             In the special situation of facilitating an Open Space,
>             supination has a
>             special value, I think. The supination of the facilitator
>             say in ways that
>             nothing else can -- that The People are in Charge. Really,
>             they do it all by
>             themselves. And the fact that nobody ever really notices
>             that I am absent
>             drives the point home. Folks, It is your thing!
>
>
>
>             So Supinate to your heart's content -- it will fix up just
>             about anything, I
>             find.
>
>
>
>             Harrison
>
>
>
>             From: OSList
>             [mailto:oslist-bounces at lists.openspacetech.org
>             <mailto:oslist-bounces at lists.openspacetech.org>] On Behalf Of
>             Tenneson Woolf
>             Sent: Wednesday, July 09, 2014 11:01 AM
>             To: World wide Open Space Technology email list
>             Cc: mmpannwitz at gmail.com <mailto:mmpannwitz at gmail.com>
>             Subject: Re: [OSList] About time and napping
>
>
>
>             Love it!
>
>
>
>             Ah..., who is the stroller for Toke?
>
>
>
>             :)
>
>
>
>             On Jul 9, 2014, at 2:54 AM, Toke Paludan Møller wrote:
>
>
>
>             Hi friends of napping and open spaces
>
>
>
>             What an important sharing going on here....
>
>
>
>             I too find it useful and kind to my self and others to nap
>             at a good timing
>             and an appropriate place during days of work and days of
>             resting both -
>             whenever possible.
>
>
>
>             My mother was a great teacher of this very human practice
>             - she napped every
>             day of her life between 20 minutes to 1 hour - and she
>             lived until she was
>             94.
>
>
>
>             I became a practitioner early on and although I have
>             wavered in my
>             dedication during some years of getting too busy -  I am
>             returning to the
>             practice and enjoyment with very good fruits
>
>             - similar to what you have all described....
>
>
>
>             We had an one our intentional and collective napping
>             during a Open space day
>             at the warrior of the heart dojo in Croatia in 2012 -
>             where 4 generation
>             napped on the lawn together
>
>             for 1 hour before we did the harvest / convergence after a
>             days work in the
>             Open space embrace....
>
>               - it brought more consciousness and ease to the harvest
>             of new
>             understanding and wiser action steps.
>
>
>
>
>
>             Cheers to the art of napping!
>
>
>
>
>
>             have a good summer with lots of napping going on
>
>
>
>             :)
>
>
>
>             kindly
>
>
>
>             Toke
>
>
>
>             Intergenerational napping practice yesterday in the Danish
>             woods....
>
>
>
>             <IMG_7586.jpg>
>
>
>
>             Toke Paludan Moeller
>
>             SKYPE: tokemoeller
>
>             InterChange Aps
>
>             Stengaardsvej 5 A,   8600 Silkeborg, Denmark
>
>             VAT number: 1350 6035
>
>             Toke - Mobile  +45 2616 6919
>
>             Monica -  Mobile  +45 2072 1019
>
>
>
>             Skype name: tokemoeller
>
>             www.interchange.dk <http://www.interchange.dk>
>
>             interchange at interchange.dk <mailto:interchange at interchange.dk>
>
>             http://interchange.dk/calender/
>
>
>
>             On 09/07/2014, at 10.02, Michael M Pannwitz
>             <mmpannwitz at gmail.com <mailto:mmpannwitz at gmail.com>> wrote:
>
>
>
>             Hi Artur, Harrison, Spark, Adriana and you other nappers
>             out there,
>
>             tell me what works for you around napping: time of day,
>             length, space,
>             light, naked, clothed... I have been experimenting (trying
>             a regular rhythm
>             or when I feel I need a nap, short such as 15 minutes and
>             up to an hour,
>             setting a timer or leave it to whenever I wake up...) and
>             its not really
>             working for me, yet!
>             While I hate to admit it, it annoys me when people grin or
>             joke about my
>             napping attempts.
>             In my os work, I have taken naps. Once I did it in a
>             semi-public space and
>             was rudely attacked by a participant: How dare you take a
>             nap when things
>             are really chaotic here! After that I chose out-of-sight
>             spaces.
>             When I take a nap while a soccer game is going on (in
>             Germany its serious
>             business and everyone is off their whatever after the game
>             last nite) I dont
>             tell anyone!!
>
>             I would not bother you but since it seems to be such an
>             essential activity I
>             thought I dare, its been an important issue for me!
>
>             Have a nap-rich day
>             Greetings from Berlin
>             mmp
>
>             On 09.07.2014 00:09, Harrison Owen wrote:
>
>             Thank you Artur! One of the few things I am absolutely
>             positive about!
>             Naps are essential!!!
>
>             ho
>
>             *From:*OSList
>             [mailto:oslist-bounces at lists.openspacetech.org
>             <mailto:oslist-bounces at lists.openspacetech.org>] *On Behalf
>             Of *Artur Silva
>             *Sent:* Tuesday, July 08, 2014 4:59 PM
>             *To:* OSLIST New Adress
>             *Subject:* [OSList] About time and napping
>
>             To Harrison,
>
>              From Artur
>
>             Napping can Dramatically Increase Learning, Memory,
>             Awareness, and More
>             <http://themindunleashed.org/2014/04/napping-can-dramatically-increase-learning.html>
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>             <http://themindunleashed.org/2014/04/napping-can-dramatically-increase-learning.html>
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>             Napping can Dramatically Increase Learning, Memory, Aw...
>             <http://themindunleashed.org/2014/04/napping-can-dramatically-increase-learning.html>
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>             In some places, towns essentially shut down in the
>             afternoon while
>             everyone goes home for a siesta. Unfortunately, in the...
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>             View on *themindunleashed.org <http://themindunleashed.org>*
>             <http://themindunleashed.org/2014/04/napping-can-dramatically-increase-learning.html>
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