Alternatives to Debate/Was Re: Open Space in the European Community
Diana Larsen
dlarsen at futureworksconsulting.com
Thu Sep 29 12:29:29 PDT 2005
Hi All,
Time to stop lurking, I guess. ;-)
When the purpose of a gathering (or that part of a gathering) is to
explore ideas more than it is to make decisions, I create an additional
flip chart poster with four continua. As I open space (notice the lower
case) for groups, I extend the invitation to focus on:
- inquiry rather than advocacy
- discussion rather than debate
- conversation rather than argument
- understanding rather than defending
Participants have come to me to say that it helped them for me to make
this distinction in the kinds of possible discourse. They hadn't
thought about the fact that they had options to choose from when they
interacted on topics about which they felt passion.
Peace!
Diana
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On Sep 29, 2005, at 9:29 AM, Harrison Owen wrote:
> Very good point! I have just been invited to facilitate a gathering of
> 200
> Rabbis and Imams from around the world -- on the question "Issues and
> Opportunities for enabling peace between Jews and Muslims" (At least I
> think
> that is the question). And that nasty word "debate" came up in our
> discussions of how to write the invitation. I can certainly understand
> how
> it jumps up -- given everybody's history. But it really is a bummer.
> We do
> need to think of some alternatives. "Engaged Conversation" might head
> in a
> more fruitful direction. And other possibilities would be wonderful.
>
> Harrison
>
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